2025 Staff Picks - Best of How to Be a Better Human
Digest
This episode of "How to Be a Better Human" features a "High School Yearbook" style recap, with team members selecting favorite episodes and assigning superlatives. Topics covered include Capital One's AI Chat Concierge for car shopping, the seriousness of eating disorders and the Equip treatment program, and various inspiring stories. These stories focus on spirituality, personal change, food sovereignty, community, belonging, overcoming challenges, and shifting perspectives on personal branding, rest, and embracing color. The discussion also touches on neuroscience concepts like controlled hallucination and the importance of rest and self-grace.
Outlines

AI, Eating Disorders, and Season Recap
The podcast begins by introducing Capital One's Chat Concierge AI for car shopping and discusses the prevalence and treatment of eating disorders with the Equip program. It then transitions into a recap of the "How to Be a Better Human" season, with team members sharing their favorite episodes and assigning superlatives.

Superlative Picks: Rethinking the World and Finding Inspiration
This section features superlative picks from the team, including episodes that encourage rethinking one's place in the world through spirituality and kindness, and inspiring stories of personal change and sobriety. It also highlights discussions on the intersectionality of identities and confronting historical truths.

Superlative Picks: Community, Belonging, and Motivation
Further superlative selections focus on reclaiming food traditions for community healing and pride, exploring belonging and community through words, and finding motivation for physical strength and mobility.

Superlative Picks: Life Improvement and Perspective Shifts
The final superlatives cover practical life improvements, such as reclaiming cringe humor and increasing daily presence. Discussions also delve into shifting perspectives on personal branding versus reputation, the importance of "wintering" (rest and recovery), and the joy found in color and patterns.
Keywords
Capital One Chat Concierge AI
A multi-agentic AI system designed to simplify the car shopping experience by assisting with car discovery, test drives, financing, and trade-in estimates.
Eating Disorders
Serious mental illnesses characterized by disturbances in eating behaviors, with Equip offering virtual, evidence-based treatment.
Spirituality
Explored through believing in others, kindness, and community building, as highlighted in selected podcast episodes.
Personal Change
Emphasized through honest self-reflection and vulnerability, as seen in stories of sobriety and personal growth.
Food Sovereignty
The concept of reclaiming food traditions for community healing, pride, and control over food systems.
Belonging and Community
The sense of connection and acceptance within social groups, explored through various personal narratives.
Personal Branding
Contrasted with building character and reputation, advocating for authenticity over manufactured personas.
Wintering (Rest and Recovery)
The essential human need for periods of rest, recovery, and self-grace, integral to healing and well-being.
Controlled Hallucination (Neuroscience)
A neuroscience concept suggesting that reality perception is an internally generated construction by the brain.
Joy of Color and Patterns
The positive impact of vibrant colors and patterns on well-being, contrasted with the potential sadness of minimalism.
Q&A
What is Capital One's Chat Concierge and what does it do?
Capital One's Chat Concierge is a multi-agentic AI designed to simplify car shopping. It assists users in finding cars, scheduling test drives, obtaining financing pre-approval, and estimating trade-in values using advanced reasoning and API checks.
What are eating disorders and what is Equip?
Eating disorders are serious mental illnesses that can be easily overlooked. Equip is a fully virtual, evidence-based treatment program that provides patients with a multidisciplinary care team and personalized plans for lasting recovery at home.
How does the podcast define spirituality in the episode with Luther and Nadia Boles-Weber?
The episode re-roots spirituality in believing in other people and their inherent goodness. It presents spirituality in a lighthearted, logical way, emphasizing sincere kindness and treating others well as the core of being a spiritual person.
What makes Edith Zimmerman's story inspiring, according to Michelle Quint?
Michelle Quint finds Edith Zimmerman's story inspiring not just because of her sobriety, but due to her open, honest, and vulnerable approach. It highlights the power of making significant personal changes through clear and honest self-reflection.
What is the core argument of Clint Smith's episode, as discussed by Nisha Randhar?
Clint Smith discusses the intersectionality of identities and the inheritance of difficult pasts. He argues for the importance of truthfully confronting history, acknowledging both the shame and pride in the American identity, and holding contradictory truths.
How does Sean Sherman's work with food traditions aim to heal and rebuild communities?
Sean Sherman reclaims food traditions not just as recipes, but as a way of healing, rebuilding community, and restoring pride. His work emphasizes food sovereignty, empowering communities to control their own food systems for a stronger future.
What is the significance of "wintering" as discussed by Catherine May?
"Wintering" represents a crucial period of rest, recovery, and self-grace. The concept challenges the belief that periods of inactivity are failures, highlighting that this hibernation is essential for healing and becoming more alive to life's experiences.
What is the main takeaway from Debbie Milman's perspective on personal branding?
Debbie Milman argues against viewing oneself as a brand, suggesting it leads to commodification. Instead, she advocates for building character, reputation, and a body of work to communicate one's persona and intentions authentically.
What is the concept of "controlled hallucination" in neuroscience?
Controlled hallucination suggests our perception is an internal construction. The brain actively constructs reality by making predictions and minimizing sensory input, essentially creating an "inside-out" model of the world rather than passively receiving it.
What is the "Most Shared Tidbit" and its message?
The Most Shared Tidbit emphasizes that minimalism can lead to sadness, while our brains respond positively to bright colors, repeating patterns, and abundance. It encourages incorporating more color and joyful sensory elements into daily life.
Show Notes
Remember those fun high school superlatives like the “Class Clown” or the “Biggest Flirt”? In this special How to Be a Better Human season finale, you will be hearing from our previous guest Dallas Youth Poet Laureate Naisha Randhar and our team of editors, marketers, producers, fact-checkers and more on their favorite episodes this year.
How to Be a Better Human 2025 Superlatives
- Most Likely to Make You Rethink Your Place in the World
- Most Inspiring Story
- Most Likely to Make You Feel Your Feels
- Best Motivator
- Most Likely to Improve Your Life Tomorrow
- Biggest Perspective Shifter
- Most Shared Tidbit
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