219: Why Middle Managers Have the Hardest Job | Damon Lembi

Update: 2025-09-24

Description

Successful teams rely on energy, resilience, and community—and middle managers need all three now more than ever. In this practical solo episode, host Damon Lembi shares game-changing strategies for navigating the toughest seat in business: the middle. Drawing inspiration from a chaotic day at his son’s nursery school, Damon unpacks the real-world stressors facing today’s middle managers and delivers three essential tips you can start using immediately. From protecting your sleep to reimagining meetings, plus a surprising approach to building your own peer support circle, this episode is packed with mental, physical, and tactical tools to help you thrive—not just survive. Damon also shares a bonus “book of wins” exercise to keep your motivation high against all odds.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, or just looking to sharpen your leadership edge, you’ll find tangible steps and inspiration right here.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why self-care is the first and most critical step for every middle manager’s success
How a structured “3-2-1” evening routine can boost your sleep—and next-day performance
Simple but powerful meeting habits that drive clarity, manage time, and energize your team
How to create your own peer community for insights, support, and resilience
The surprising effect of reflecting on your wins—and how to build a practice that fuels you through challenges

Timestamps:

00:00 – The middle manager paradox: pressure from above, responsibility below

00:30 – Why middle managers are often overlooked—but absolutely essential

01:05 – Tip #1: Clarify your priorities (especially when they’re unclear)

01:45 – Damon’s morning habit: setting his “Big 3”

02:15 – How clarity protects your time, team, and sanity

02:50 – Tip #2: Know how your boss defines success

03:25 – The misalignment trap: working hard on the wrong things

04:10 – Pro tip: Ask “What’s the #1 thing you need from me this week?”

04:40 – Tip #3: Lead your team how they want to be led

05:15 – Story: learning to adapt for a direct report with a hearing difference

06:00 – “Chameleon leadership” and psychological safety

06:45 – Recap: Clarify priorities, align with your boss, flex to your team

07:10 – Damon’s challenge: Pick one tip and try it this week

07:30 – Free training gift + Learnit.com plug

About Damon Lembi

Damon Lembi is a 3x bestselling author, the host of The Learn-It-All Podcast, and CEO of Learnit – a live learning platform that has upskilled over 2 million people. Drawing from his prior baseball career, Damon brings an athlete’s perspective to leadership. Through his journey, he has gained invaluable insights into what helps organizations grow, how great leaders learn, and why learn-it-all companies outpace their competitors every time.   

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