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244.0 Being Another Fish or Viewing a Fishbowl? Why People Aren't Understanding with Grief.

244.0 Being Another Fish or Viewing a Fishbowl? Why People Aren't Understanding with Grief.

Update: 2025-10-12
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In today’s episode, I share what it felt like to return to church and work after losing Monica. I’ll explain the disconnect between those inside the “fishbowl” of grief and those viewing from the outside.


Using the unlikely example of Krispy Kreme doughnuts, we’ll explore why having information about grief is not the same as living it. You’ll hear about the power of compassionate presence, the frustration of well-meaning but hurtful comments, and the difference between education and revelation when it comes to comforting someone who is grieving.


Bible Verse for Reflection: "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." —Romans 12:15 (NIV)


Action Step


Think of someone in your life who is grieving. Reach out and offer a simple gesture: let them know you’re thinking of them and would be honored to listen if they want to talk about their person. It’s not about fixing—just about being present.


 

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244.0 Being Another Fish or Viewing a Fishbowl? Why People Aren't Understanding with Grief.

244.0 Being Another Fish or Viewing a Fishbowl? Why People Aren't Understanding with Grief.

Stefanie Cabaniss - Christian Grief Coach, Purpose After Loss Coach, Health Professional