Too often, we approach prayer like a transaction. We bring our list of needs, hand them to God, and hope for answers. But prayer is meant to be far deeper. It’s not only about speaking—it’s about sharing God’s heart. The ultimate goal of prayer isn’t getting something from God, but getting closer to God.

Our springboard for today’s discussion is:“The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him, and he makes known to them his covenant.” — Psalm 25:14 (ESV)

Imagine sitting down with a close friend who never lets you speak, who only unloads their problems and then leaves. That’s what prayer looks like when it’s only about us. But discipleship means cultivating a friendship with God, where His heart is revealed to us.

How do we hear God’s heart in prayer?

* Through His Word. Scripture is God’s primary revelation of His heart. When you pray it, you’re hearing His desires, His promises, and His will.

* Through the Holy Spirit. Romans 8:16 tells us, “The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God.” In prayer, the Spirit nudges us, convicts us, comforts us, and whispers what matters most to the Father.

* Through surrender. When we pray, “Your will be done,” we shift from forcing our desires onto God to receiving His. That’s when intimacy happens—when our heart begins to beat in rhythm with His.

Hearing God’s heart changes how you pray for others. Instead of praying your limited perspective, you start praying His eternal will. Instead of asking only for relief, you begin asking for transformation. Instead of focusing only on problems, you begin declaring His purposes.

The closer you draw to Him in prayer, the more you’ll notice your heart aligning with His—loving what He loves, grieving what He grieves, and pursuing what He pursues.

Question of the Day:When was the last time you paused in prayer not to ask, but simply to say, “Father, what’s on Your heart today?”

Mini Call to Action:Take 10 minutes today to pray without asking for anything. Instead, ask God to show you what’s on His heart and write it down.

Prayer:Lord, draw me deeper into friendship with You. Teach me to pray not only my words, but to listen for Yours. Align my heart with Your desires, so that I may live and pray in step with You.

Let’s Get To Work!Prayer is the bridge where your heart meets His. Step onto it, listen well, and walk in rhythm with the Father.

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