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286: What if you were born without a hand?

286: What if you were born without a hand?

Update: 2023-07-117


Being born without his right hand, man’s resentment and monstrous self-image deepen as family and doctors intervene to fix his condition, leading him to question what would truly make him whole. 

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Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits

Content/Trigger Warnings:  medical trauma, amputation, explicit language


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Comments (2)

Mary Zelie

I understand his gripes with his parents religion and all that, but his parents seem very giving and loving and it seems like just a lot of complaining about them.

Jul 26th
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286: What if you were born without a hand?

286: What if you were born without a hand?