01:07 intro 

03:30 Montessori schooling and Taking Children Seriously

04:59 about to relocate: from a Montessori school to homeschooling with a tutor

11:25 Lindl’s experience as a homeschooled kid

14:52 Steyn’s experience in a mainstream school

16:09 the ideal mix

17:36 what’s an exceptional tutor

20:00 Steyn’s focus : the ability to feel and sense, to better solve problems

24:42 Lindl’s focus : be true to yourself (about manners, too)

25:28 about discipline

25:57 the non-coercive approach : how do you make other people feel

29:21 screen time : creating an environment where they will flourish

31:32 how their kids deal with screens

32:58 crafting the environment

37:38 building a YouTube look-alike app using AI, involving kids in the curation

40:20 Minecraft and creativity ; video games

41:49 watching stories together 

46:48 screens and boredom

51:01 trust the process

52:39 no time outs 

53:44 dealing with crisis and sibling rivalry

59:39 Taking Children Seriously

01:00:58 The Sovereign Child

01:02:16 disagreements

01:07:05 AI and kids : from fact checking to video generation

01:11:30 AI and what to be hopeful for

01:15:11 content they’d like to share with parents (see below)

01:18:24 about their life philosophy : "I don't know what can be more important in life than how we make other people feel, which makes it easier to raise your kid in a non coercive way" ; "being able to say I am sorry"