DiscoverLove Each Other Better33: How to Listen (and Get Heard) When You're Caught in Conflict
33: How to Listen (and Get Heard) When You're Caught in Conflict

33: How to Listen (and Get Heard) When You're Caught in Conflict

Update: 2025-09-08
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Do you feel unheard in your relationship—or like every conversation turns into an argument?

In this episode, we'll unpack what's really going on when you and your partner get stuck in blame, defensiveness, or silence. You'll learn how to truly listen (and get listened to) using the powerful tools of Nonviolent Communication (NVC).

We cover:

  • What's really underneath most conflict

  • Why empathy changes everything

  • How to stop defending and start connecting

  • Simple questions that shift the dynamic fast

If you're longing to feel more understood, emotionally safe, and connected in your relationship, this episode will offer both insight and practical tools.

Want to go deeper?

Explore my 9-week private coaching program for couples:
Stop Fighting! (without stuffing your feelings or sacrificing your needs)
Includes my signature training:
Hearing Each Other's Hearts: NVC Essentials for Couples
Learn more: www.alimillercoaching.com/stopfighting

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33: How to Listen (and Get Heard) When You're Caught in Conflict

33: How to Listen (and Get Heard) When You're Caught in Conflict

Ali Miller