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334: What if your parachute didn’t open?

334: What if your parachute didn’t open?

Update: 2024-10-083
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This podcast episode delves into Brad's personal story, starting with his childhood in rural Australia and his struggles with self-acceptance during his teenage years. He shares his transformative experience during a student exchange in the US, where he found freedom and began to embrace his true self. Brad then recounts his decision to skydive for his 23rd birthday, leading to a terrifying accident that left him with severe injuries. The episode details the harrowing aftermath, including his hospital stay, the physical and emotional pain, and his battle with depression and suicidal thoughts. Brad candidly discusses his journey through therapy, highlighting its crucial role in helping him process his trauma, develop coping mechanisms, and find resilience. He emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and the power of healing, ultimately finding meaning in his experience and embracing the future.

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From Trauma to Transformation: A Skydiving Accident and the Journey to Healing

This episode follows Brad's journey of self-discovery and resilience as he recounts his skydiving accident, the subsequent trauma, and his path to healing and finding meaning in his experience.

00:00:19
Early Life and the Seeds of Self-Doubt

Brad shares his upbringing in rural Australia, his struggles with identity, and the difficult experiences he faced in high school.

00:01:17
The Skydiving Accident and its Aftermath

Brad recounts his decision to skydive, the terrifying accident, and the immediate aftermath, including his hospital stay and the initial stages of recovery.

00:03:30
Finding Hope and Embracing the Future

Brad discusses his battle with depression, the transformative power of therapy, and his journey to self-acceptance and resilience. He reflects on the lasting impact of his accident and his newfound appreciation for life.

Keywords

Survivor's Guilt


A feeling of guilt experienced by someone who has survived a traumatic event, often accompanied by the belief that they should have died instead of someone else.

PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)


A mental health condition that can develop after a traumatic event, characterized by intrusive thoughts, nightmares, avoidance behaviors, and emotional distress.

Night Terrors


A sleep disorder characterized by episodes of screaming, thrashing, and fear during sleep, often accompanied by confusion and disorientation upon waking.

Trauma


A deeply distressing or disturbing experience that can have a lasting impact on a person's mental and emotional well-being.

Resilience


The ability to adapt well to adversity, bounce back from difficult experiences, and maintain a positive outlook despite challenges.

Self-Acceptance


The process of recognizing and accepting oneself, including one's strengths, weaknesses, and imperfections, without judgment or criticism.

Healing


The process of recovering from physical or emotional trauma, often involving a combination of therapy, self-care, and support from others.

Second Chance


An opportunity to start over or make amends after a difficult experience, often leading to a renewed sense of purpose and appreciation for life.

Q&A

  • What was the most challenging aspect of Brad's recovery?

    Brad found the most challenging aspect of his recovery to be the overwhelming feeling of guilt and the constant night terrors that haunted him. He also struggled with the physical limitations and the feeling of being broken.

  • How did therapy help Brad overcome his trauma?

    Therapy provided Brad with a safe space to process his trauma, develop coping mechanisms, and challenge his negative self-beliefs. It helped him understand the science behind his reactions and develop practical strategies for managing his symptoms.

  • What is Brad's perspective on his accident now, 11 years later?

    Brad now views his accident as a transformative experience that has shaped his identity and given him a renewed appreciation for life. He acknowledges the suffering it caused but also recognizes the growth and resilience he has gained.

  • What advice would Brad give to others who have experienced trauma?

    Brad encourages others to seek professional help, embrace their experiences, and find meaning in their journeys. He emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, resilience, and the power of healing.

Show Notes

After coming out and finding self-acceptance, a man faces his greatest physical and emotional struggle yet when a celebratory skydive takes a terrifying turn.

 

Today’s episode featured Brad Guy. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at hello@bradguy.com, or you can find him on Instagram and TikTok @bradjguy.


Visit bradguy.com to order his memoir “Freefall” and to book him for speaking engagements.


Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz

 

Content/Trigger Warnings: childhood obesity, being in the closet, self-hatred, serious accident, serious bodily injury, falling from a plane, parachute malfunction, death, suicidal ideation, explicit language

 

Social Media:

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Twitter: @TIAHPodcast

 

Website: thisisactuallyhappening.com

 

Website for Andrew Waits: andrewwaits.com

Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: avivalipkowitz.com 

 

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Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.com

 

Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper

Music Bed: Uncertain Outcomes

 

Services

If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources:

 

National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 

National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264

National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)



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334: What if your parachute didn’t open?

334: What if your parachute didn’t open?