#41: Julie Hruska - Awaken From Sleepwalking Into Self-confidence
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#41 Julie Hruska -- Awaken from sleepwalking into self-confidence
How do we prioritize competing values and commitments?
What are the 6 habits of success?
What is holding you back from being successful?
These and other compelling questions are addressed when high performance coach Julie Hruska joins The Rabbi and the Shrink.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hruska-067414188/
2:00 How living others expectations can go wrong
Waking up from sleepwalking through life
Recalibrating for service serves ourselves
Everyone needs clarity and courage
You can’t serve others by being a dream merchant
7:00 Reject indoctrination and embrace wisdom
If we’re afraid of clarity, we retreat into sleepwalking
Believe in your own ability
Pay attention to your mindset and your internal voice
If we don’t choose our beliefs and values, we lack confidence
12:00 The comfort of the status quo
With low risk comes low reward
How do we prioritize competing values and commitments?
The only way to have integrity is grapple with hard choices
Who are you right now -- good and bad?
Then you have to have the vision of where you want to go
16:00 The 12 elements of success
What are the 6 habits of success?
What holds people back?
Limiting beliefs
Ego
Dismissal
The value of a coach is holding us accountable to put principles into practice
20:00 Sustained growth is the secret to long term success
Why is kindness essential to meaningful influence?
24:00 An unethical coach exploits our fear
Responsible leaders and coaches empower others, don’t create dependence
“Dissolve the teacher” -- make it about others, not about you
Generosity of spirit is essential to ethics
Abundance mindset eliminates the stress of competition
31:00 Often we learn through counterexample and struggle
32:00 The word of the day: penumbral
The partial shadow that resides outside the full shadow
Shadowy or shady
Don’t be afraid to step out of the shadows and risk greatness
I have the responsibility to share my talents and abilities with the world
“It’s our darkness, not our light that we fear the most.”
“It’s in our weaknesses that we find our true path.”