In this episode, host Leisa Reichelt is joined by Tanya Valentin, a neuro-affirming family coach from New Zealand. 

Tanya shares her journey of discovering her neurodivergence and her family's experiences with school burnout and autism. They discuss the challenges, grief, and shame faced by parents, and the transformative power of finding new paths to education and parenting. 

Tanya also talks about the resources and support available for families dealing with similar issues. Tune in to hear insights on breaking societal norms and fostering genuine connections with your children.

00:00 Welcome to the School Can't Experience Podcast

00:28 Meet Tanya Valentin: A Journey Through Burnout and Neurodivergence

02:53 Understanding Burnout: A Family's Struggle and Discovery

05:29 Navigating Parenting Challenges and Professional Advice

12:53 The Emotional Toll: Grief, Shame, and Transformation

41:34 Finding Support and Resources for Parents

45:57 Closing Thoughts and Resources

Tanya’s Resources

Tanya has a holiday support menu for parents, centred on the grief and emotional weight that can surface at this time of year.  The supports range from free to paid and are designed to meet parents across different needs and capacity levels.

You can find that here: https://tanyavalentin.co/holiday-support-menu/

And here is the link for parents who may wish to join From Burnout to Balance: https://tanyavalentin.co/parent-community/

People & resources mentioned in this episode:

• Dr Anna Neff: https://neurodivergentinsights.com/
• Dr Francis Weller: https://www.francisweller.net/
• Dr Emmi Pickler: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emmi_Pikler
• Kristi Forbes: https://www.kristyforbes.com.au/
• Dr Naomi Fisher:https://naomifisher.co.uk/

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The content of this podcast is based on personal lived experiences and is shared for informational and storytelling purposes only. It should not be treated as medical, psychological, or professional advice under any circumstances. If you have concerns about your health or well-being, please seek guidance from a doctor, therapist, or other qualified professional.