49 | Should I Bring This Up to My Husband? Learning When to Speak and When to Let It Go And What Biblical Submission Means

49 | Should I Bring This Up to My Husband? Learning When to Speak and When to Let It Go And What Biblical Submission Means

Update: 2025-09-15
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Have you ever said something to your husband in the heat of the moment… and regretted it instantly?


If so, you’re not alone. In today’s episode of the United Christian Marriage Podcast, Micaiah shares a simple, biblical process for knowing when to speak—and when to let things go. You’ll learn how to pause, pray, and process before you open your mouth so your words build bridges, not walls.


This conversation will help you stop reacting out of emotion and start responding with love, respect, and discernment. It’s time to bring peace back into your marriage conversations and strengthen the bond between you and your husband—with Jesus right at the center.


What you’ll learn in this episode:




  • A “timed release” method for pausing before you speak




  • 5 practical ways to process your thoughts with God before talking with your husband




  • Key filtering questions to ask before starting a tough conversation




  • Why biblical submission is not silence—but strength under control




  • How to start a respectful conversation that builds unity instead of tension




 


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49 | Should I Bring This Up to My Husband? Learning When to Speak and When to Let It Go And What Biblical Submission Means

49 | Should I Bring This Up to My Husband? Learning When to Speak and When to Let It Go And What Biblical Submission Means

Micaiah Gray | Christian Marriage Coach, Marriage Counseling and Marriage Therapy Alternative, Christian Wife Coach, Relationship Coach