This week, Eric is joined by Emily Karp! Emily is a 33-year-old entrepreneur, asexuality activist, and fan-work creator!  She embraced her ADHD around age 30 and quit her tedious job to become self-employed as a funeral celebrant and memorial slideshow editor who crafts personalized funerals and celebration-of-life events for non-religious individuals.  Emily went through the ADHD reWired coaching program in spring of 2021 and became a peer mentor in 2022.   Emily is also one of the authors of the book Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing your Asexual or Aromantic Identity, and is a lead organizer of the Washington DC Metro Area Ace and Aro meetup group!  Learn more about Emily at griefpictured.com! Questions/Topics: [00:01:39 ] Introducing Emily [00:02:41 ] Diving into the start of Emily’s ADHD journey [00:03:37 ] The stakes of getting an ADHD diagnosis [00:04:47 ] Life as an administrative professional before treatments  [00:08:47 ] Burnout, becoming an entrepreneur, sleep struggles, and coaching  [00:10:30 ] The “why” behind becoming a non-religious Funeral Celebrant  [00:13:24 ] Helping others grieve and heal, family estrangements, memorial gatherings, and closure  [00:17:17 ] Grief to acceptance with ADHD  [00:24:07 ] The basics of asexuality and aromantics [00:26:04 ] Nuances of ace relationships, significant others, attraction, and more   [00:28:25 ] Physical desire, libido, and other statistics in the asexual community  [00:30:44 ] A discussion on dysfunction, orientation, sexual trauma, and gatekeeping  [00:33:20 ] ADHD and neurodivergence in the Ace community  [00:42:07 ] The positive impact of community and relationships  [00:45:01 ] Emily’s facilitated sessions in the ADHD reWired community spaces  [00:46:54 ] Sharing more wins  [00:48:43 ] Emily’s work, website, and closing thoughts Resources & Honorable Mentions: Podcast: Aceterpretations Website: TAAAP - The Ace and Aro Advocacy Project @ taaap.org Book: Ace and Aro Journeys: A Guide to Embracing Your Asexual or Aromantic Identity Want to go to CHADD this year?  Go to chadd.org to learn more! 🌟 Have you heard about our Adult Study Hall Community? Go to adultstudyhall.com to join our ADHD-friendly body-doubling community! 🌟 Interested in group coaching and want to take your ADHD management to the next level? Go to coachingrewired.com to get all the up-to-date information on the upcoming season of ADHD reWired's award-winning Coaching & Accountability groups!