60. Dating Dealbreakers, Ashley Madison, & Bennifer
Digest
This episode of Out of the Pods starts with Deep T and Natalie discussing Deep T's apartment, which is always kept at a cool 68 degrees Fahrenheit. Deep T explains their reasoning for this, citing their preference for cooler temperatures and their need for a fan to sleep. The conversation then shifts to Billie Eilish's new album, which Natalie has been listening to on repeat. Deep T shares a story about Billie Eilish reposting their Instagram story, and they discuss their hopes for another shoutout. The episode continues with a humorous anecdote about Deep T's friend who is a clean freak and refuses to date a woman because she has a dog. Deep T then reveals their own clean freak tendencies, recounting a time when they hid from friends while taking a shower because they were worried about them touching their belongings. The conversation then turns to the Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix, which Deep T and Natalie discuss in detail, exploring the psychology behind cheating and the impact of the hacking scandal. They also share their thoughts on open relationships and the future of relationships. The episode concludes with a discussion about JLo and Ben Affleck's rumored separation, and Deep T's recent experience as a "Karen" at Target, where they fought for a free burger using a coupon that wasn't in the system.
Outlines
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Deep T's Cool Apartment
This Chapter begins with Deep T and Natalie discussing Deep T's apartment, which is always kept at a cool 68 degrees Fahrenheit. Deep T explains their reasoning for this, citing their preference for cooler temperatures and their need for a fan to sleep. They also mention their frugal nature and how they try to conserve energy by keeping the temperature low.
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Billie Eilish's New Album
This Chapter focuses on Billie Eilish's new album, which Natalie has been listening to on repeat. Deep T shares a story about Billie Eilish reposting their Instagram story, and they discuss their hopes for another shoutout. They also discuss Billie Eilish's recent openness about her sexuality and how she is into women.
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A Clean Freak's Deal Breaker
This Chapter features a humorous anecdote about Deep T's friend who is a clean freak and refuses to date a woman because she has a dog. Deep T then reveals their own clean freak tendencies, recounting a time when they hid from friends while taking a shower because they were worried about them touching their belongings.
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The Ashley Madison Documentary
This Chapter delves into the Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix, which Deep T and Natalie discuss in detail. They explore the psychology behind cheating and the impact of the hacking scandal. They also share their thoughts on open relationships and the future of relationships.
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JLo and Ben Affleck's Rumored Separation
This Chapter discusses the rumors surrounding JLo and Ben Affleck's potential separation. Deep T and Natalie share their thoughts on the situation, highlighting the challenges of being in the public eye and the potential impact of social media on their relationship.
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Becoming a Karen
This Chapter concludes the episode with a discussion about Deep T's recent experience as a "Karen" at Target, where they fought for a free burger using a coupon that wasn't in the system. They reflect on their experience and how they are slowly becoming more like their parents, who were known for being "Karens".
Keywords
Billie Eilish
Billie Eilish Pirate Baird O'Connell (born December 18, 2001) is an American singer, songwriter, and record producer. She is known for her distinctive contralto singing voice, dark pop music, and her often-dyed black and green hair. Eilish has won seven Grammy Awards, including Album of the Year and Record of the Year for her debut studio album, When We Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go? (2019). She is also the youngest person to win all four major Grammy Awards in the same year. Eilish's music often explores themes of depression, anxiety, and the complexities of growing up. She has been praised for her honesty and vulnerability in her songwriting, and her music has resonated with a wide audience.
Ashley Madison
Ashley Madison is a website and app that facilitates extramarital affairs. It was founded in 2001 and has been the subject of controversy and scandal, particularly after a major data breach in 2015 that exposed the identities of millions of users. The site's tagline, "Life is short, have an affair," reflects its focus on providing a platform for individuals seeking discreet relationships outside of their marriages. The Ashley Madison scandal had a significant impact on the online dating industry and raised concerns about data security and privacy.
JLo
Jennifer Lynn Lopez (born July 24, 1969), known professionally as Jennifer Lopez or J.Lo, is an American singer, actress, dancer, and producer. She is known for her work in film, television, and music, and has been recognized for her contributions to the entertainment industry. Lopez has won numerous awards, including a Grammy Award, a Golden Globe Award, and an American Music Award. She is also a successful businesswoman, with her own clothing line, fragrance line, and production company. Lopez's career has spanned over three decades, and she continues to be a popular and influential figure in the entertainment industry.
Ben Affleck
Benjamin Géza Affleck-Boldt (born August 15, 1972) is an American actor, filmmaker, and screenwriter. He is known for his roles in films such as Good Will Hunting (1997), Argo (2012), and The Tender Bar (2021). Affleck has won two Academy Awards, one for Best Original Screenplay for Good Will Hunting and one for Best Picture for Argo. He is also a successful director, with films such as Gone Baby Gone (2007) and The Town (2010) to his credit. Affleck's career has been marked by both critical acclaim and commercial success, and he is considered one of the most talented actors and filmmakers of his generation.
Karen
Karen is a slang term used to describe a middle-aged white woman who is perceived as entitled, demanding, and prone to complaining. The term has become a meme and is often used to mock or criticize women who exhibit these behaviors. The stereotype of a Karen is often associated with situations where they are perceived as being overly critical or demanding of service workers or other authority figures. The term has been criticized for being sexist and for perpetuating negative stereotypes about women.
Q&A
What is Deep T's apartment temperature preference and why?
Deep T prefers to keep their apartment at a cool 68 degrees Fahrenheit because they don't like the heat and need a fan to sleep.
What is Billie Eilish's new album and how does Natalie feel about it?
Billie Eilish's new album is out and Natalie loves it, listening to it on repeat while cleaning.
What is Deep T's friend's deal breaker when it comes to dating?
Deep T's friend is a clean freak and refuses to date a woman who has a dog because he's worried about the dog's paws getting everywhere.
What is the Ashley Madison documentary about and what are Deep T and Natalie's thoughts on it?
The Ashley Madison documentary on Netflix explores the hacking scandal of the extramarital affair website and the psychology behind cheating. Deep T and Natalie discuss their own experiences with cheating and share their thoughts on the future of relationships.
What are the rumors surrounding JLo and Ben Affleck's relationship?
Rumors suggest that JLo and Ben Affleck are headed towards a separation, with Ben moving out of their marital home. They are not commenting on their relationship status.
What is Deep T's recent experience as a "Karen" at Target?
Deep T encountered a situation at Target where they fought for a free burger using a coupon that wasn't in the system. They reflect on their experience and how they are slowly becoming more like their parents, who were known for being "Karens".
Show Notes
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