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72. "Big Talk" with Your Boss Flopped? What to Do Next

72. "Big Talk" with Your Boss Flopped? What to Do Next

Update: 2025-11-05
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You prepared and built up that conversation with your manager for days, maybe even weeks. And then... it doesn't deliver the closure you hoped. It didn’t go bad, but it feels like nothing was really resolved. In this episode, Melody names the invisible pattern behind this frustration – and why it has nothing to do with how well you prepared or what you said. 

What You’ll Discover:

  • The 3-phase mental journey that happens before you even open your mouth (and why it sets you up for disappointment)
  • The #1 shift to stop replaying conversations wondering what went wrong
  • How to keep important topics alive over time without burning political capital or seeming difficult

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72. "Big Talk" with Your Boss Flopped? What to Do Next

72. "Big Talk" with Your Boss Flopped? What to Do Next

Melody Wilding