#75 – Tabs & Triggers: Why Policing an Unrepentant Spouse Cripples Your Recovery
You’ve felt it—that overwhelming compulsion to call, text, or track your spouse’s device to see where they are, where they’ve been, or who they’ve been talking to. The urge to police our unrepentant sexually addicted or unfaithful spouse can become so obsessive, our own mental, emotional and physical health can be put in jeopardy.
In this episode of the Hope for Spouses’ Lunchtime Live, Kim Pullen addresses the motivations behind “keeping tabs” on our betraying partner, the subsequent triggers we unwittingly invite into our already traumatized lives, and how our obsessiveness can actual cripple our personal recovery efforts.
Kim will also talk about the reasons we often get swept up into unhealthy patterns in our dysfunctional marriage and how to practically turn it around by choosing to view our lives through the eyes of Scripture.
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