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8 | Strong-Willed or Something More? Why Regulation and Connection Matter More Than a Label

8 | Strong-Willed or Something More? Why Regulation and Connection Matter More Than a Label

Update: 2025-09-11
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Mama, Is your child just strong-willed, or could something deeper be going on...


In this episode, we’ll unpack the difference between a strong-willed child and a neurodivergent child, and why the distinction matters—but not in the way you might think.


Because at the end of the day, your child’s identity isn’t found in a label. And yours isn’t defined by their meltdowns. 💜


We’ll talk about:



  • The difference between strong-willed traits and neurodivergent challenges.

  • Why regulation and connection matter more than labels.

  • How to anchor yourself so you can show up with peace, regardless of diagnosis.


Whether you’re navigating ADHD, ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder), PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder), or just a whole lot of strong-willed energy, this conversation will give you hope and perspective.


 


Scriptures referenced:



  • Psalm 139:14 — “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

  • Isaiah 43:1 says, “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.”


Cleveland Clinic List Referenced:


https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/symptoms/23154-neurodivergent


 


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8 | Strong-Willed or Something More? Why Regulation and Connection Matter More Than a Label

8 | Strong-Willed or Something More? Why Regulation and Connection Matter More Than a Label

Amanda Calfee - Christian Life Coach, Mama of Strong-willed & Neurodivergent Kiddos