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81. The Girls Get Off Episode (and Honestly, So Should You): Vibrators, Shame & the Orgasm Gap

81. The Girls Get Off Episode (and Honestly, So Should You): Vibrators, Shame & the Orgasm Gap

Update: 2025-07-06
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If you’ve ever felt shame around pleasure, been nervous about trying sex toys, or wondered how the hell to ask for what you actually like in bed — this episode is your new safe space.

Kathleen is joined by Viv from Girls Get Off — the powerhouse brand behind some very buzzy bedside drawer staples — for a no-filter conversation on all things pleasure, desire, and ditching the shame.

They get into:
→ The real reason so many women still struggle with receiving pleasure
→ The orgasm gap (and how to actually close it)
→ Sex toy 101: a breakdown of the types + how to explore them without the overwhelm
→ How to talk about sex without spiralling into “Do they think I’m weird now?”
→ And why connecting to your pleasure isn’t just sexy… it’s healing.

This one’s equal parts spicy, empowering and giggle-worthy. And yes — it’s VERY R18. Plug in your headphones, babe.


Resources mentioned:
Girls Get Off Website
Girls Get Off Instagram
GGO Facebook Community Group
Yoni Mapping Practitioners
Anal Dilation 101 (yes, we went there)
Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz
Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski


Want to keep healing and reconnecting with your body, mind and self-worth?
Join Kathleen’s 1:1 program HEAL — designed to help you unpack the beliefs, patterns, and parts that have kept you stuck in self-abandonment, anxiety, and shame.
More on HEAL here → https://www.kathleenmindsetcoach.com/coaching

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81. The Girls Get Off Episode (and Honestly, So Should You): Vibrators, Shame & the Orgasm Gap

81. The Girls Get Off Episode (and Honestly, So Should You): Vibrators, Shame & the Orgasm Gap

Kathleen McBride