In this episode, Ashley speaks to the deep wounds that can come from others’ words—or their silence—after the loss of a baby. Centered on Chapter 8 of Cradled in Hope, “They Know Not What They Do: When You Are Hurt by Others,” she gently walks alongside grieving moms who have experienced secondary pain in the wake of their primary loss. Whether through insensitive comments or heartbreaking absence, Ashley shares how Jesus understands—and how He calls us to respond with grace.

Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical tools, Ashley invites listeners to process their relational grief with honesty and hope. With heartfelt compassion, she shares how Jesus, even in His own suffering, forgave those who hurt Him—and how we, too, can follow His example, even when it’s hard.

In this episode, Ashley shared:

• How a stranger’s comment at a park triggered unexpected waves of grief

• The “Tale of Two Cups” analogy that explains why small remarks can feel so big when our emotional cup is full

• The concept of the “Grace Cup”—a mindset of pre-filling our hearts with grace for others

• Real-life examples of insensitive things people say—and how to lovingly respond or set boundaries

• How to identify your love language in grief and communicate your specific needs to others

• Why some friendships fade while others deepen—and how grief can clarify who your true community is

• Encouragement to forgive those who’ve hurt you, even if they never realize it—just as Jesus did on the cross

• An invitation to find support through Bridget’s Cradles’ Hope Online groups or your local community

Ashley reminds us that while grief may reveal who stands beside us and who stays silent, God is always faithful. And He often brings new, meaningful relationships in the midst of our pain. In Jesus, we find the grace to forgive, the wisdom to communicate, and the strength to heal.

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