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Am I Being Selfish For Not Helping A Deadbeat Relative?

Am I Being Selfish For Not Helping A Deadbeat Relative?

Update: 2026-04-16
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The podcast opens with a discussion on identity theft versus scam protection, followed by a celebration of Susie and KT's 25th wedding anniversary. They then delve into financial topics, referencing Kara Swisher's advice on financial empowerment. Listener questions cover capital gains distributions, emergency cash, family financial support, 401K vs. IRA choices, Roth IRA limits, scam protection unavailability in New York, Registered Index Linked Annuities (RILAs), Unincorporated Non-Profit Associations (UNAs), and using inherited IRAs for charitable distributions. The episode concludes with reflections on the anniversary and a sign-off.

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Anniversary Celebration and Financial Empowerment

The podcast begins with a discussion on identity theft versus scam protection, followed by a celebration of Susie and KT's 25th wedding anniversary. They share personal anecdotes and then discuss Kara Swisher's advice on financial empowerment, relating it to the podcast's goal of helping women financially.

00:05:37
Listener Q&A: Investments and Savings

This segment addresses listener questions about managing capital gain distributions from mutual funds, the practicality of keeping physical cash at home for emergencies, and the decision between investing in a 401K with no company match versus an IRA, with a recommendation for Roth IRAs.

00:17:24
Listener Q&A: Retirement Accounts and Scams

The hosts answer questions regarding Roth IRA contribution limits and the "backdoor Roth" strategy for high earners. They also address concerns about the unavailability of scam protection programs in New York and provide warnings against complex financial products like Registered Index Linked Annuities (RILAs) and Unincorporated Non-Profit Associations (UNAs), identifying them as potential scams.

00:29:11
Listener Q&A: Inherited IRAs and Anniversary Reflections

A listener inquires about using a Qualified Charitable Distribution (QCD) for an inherited IRA, with clarification on age requirements. The episode concludes with Susie and KT reflecting on their 25th anniversary, sharing a memorable moment, and encouraging listeners to sign up for an upcoming webinar.

Keywords

Identity Theft Protection


Strategies and programs to safeguard personal information from fraudulent use.

Wedding Anniversary


Celebrating milestones in a marriage, sharing personal reflections and anecdotes.

Financial Empowerment


Providing individuals, particularly women, with the knowledge and tools for financial independence.

Kara Swisher


Host of "I Want to Live Forever," known for her insightful commentary on technology and finance.

Capital Gains Distributions


Annual distributions from mutual funds representing profits from asset sales, which are taxable.

Emergency Fund


Keeping a small amount of physical cash at home for immediate, unexpected needs.

Roth IRA


A retirement savings account offering tax-free growth and withdrawals, with income limitations.

Backdoor Roth IRA


A strategy allowing high-income earners to contribute to a Roth IRA indirectly.

Registered Index Linked Annuity (RILA)


A complex investment product with capped gains and potential losses, generally not recommended.

Unincorporated Non-Profit Association (UNA)


A legal structure often misrepresented as a tool for individual asset protection, typically a scam.

Qualified Charitable Distribution (QCD)


Tax-efficient IRA distributions to charities for individuals aged 70.5 and older.

Q&A

  • How do capital gain distributions from mutual funds work, and how can I manage their tax implications?

    Mutual funds must distribute realized capital gains to shareholders annually. These are taxable, even if reinvested. You can estimate distributions by looking at a fund's turnover ratio and past performance. Exchange-Traded Funds (ETFs) are generally more tax-efficient.

  • Is it wise to keep a significant amount of physical cash at home for emergencies?

    It's advisable to keep a small amount of cash, generally under $500, for emergencies. Larger sums are not typically insured against fire or theft, and can be lost. Consider fireproof storage, but even that has limitations.

  • Should I prioritize contributing to a 401K with no company match or invest in an IRA?

    If eligible, a Roth IRA should be prioritized. If your income exceeds Roth IRA limits, consider a Roth 401K if offered. Otherwise, contribute to a traditional 401K, but a Roth IRA is generally more beneficial.

  • Can I contribute to a Roth IRA if my modified adjusted gross income is above the limit?

    If your income exceeds the Roth IRA contribution limits, you may still be able to contribute through a "backdoor Roth" strategy, which involves contributing to a non-deductible traditional IRA and then converting it to a Roth IRA.

  • What are the pros and cons of a Registered Index Linked Annuity (RILA)?

    RILAs offer limited downside protection and capped upside gains, tracking market indexes. However, they are complex, have fees, and you can still lose money. They are generally not recommended over simpler, more transparent investments.

  • Is an Unincorporated Non-Profit Association (UNA) a legitimate way to protect assets and avoid taxes?

    No, UNAs are typically for non-profit organizations like churches, not individuals seeking asset protection or tax avoidance. Offers promoting UNAs for these purposes are often scams, leading to significant back taxes and penalties.

  • Can I use a Qualified Charitable Distribution (QCD) to donate my inherited IRA to charity?

    To make a QCD, you must be 70.5 years or older in the year of the distribution. If you are younger than this threshold, you cannot use a QCD and must adhere to the required distribution rules for your inherited IRA.

Show Notes

On this Ask KT & Suze Anything episode, Suze answers your questions about taxes, helping family with money and Roths.  Plus, how much cash should you keep at home and so much more!


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