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What happens when you take off the uniform — and have to rediscover who you are without it?

In this powerful episode, U.S. Air Force Veteran and former Special Agent Amanda Maribel Heller shares her journey from high-stakes national security roles to founding Lone Loba, a leadership advisory practice focused on resilience, clarity, and sustainable influence.

Amanda opens up about the mental transition from being mission-focused in the military to rebuilding her identity as an independent leader. She speaks candidly about confronting PTSD, the life-changing impact of Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), navigating isolation, and making the non-negotiable decision to reclaim her own narrative.

This conversation explores:

• Who Amanda was before the military
• What service shaped in her — and what it cost
• The identity shift after leaving the uniform
• Overcoming overfunctioning and self-limiting beliefs
• Rebuilding purpose after feeling lost
• Advice for those joining the military — and those preparing to transition out

If you’re a Veteran, leader, high performer, or anyone navigating a major life transition, this episode is a reminder that you are not starting over — you are evolving.

Purpose isn’t lost. It’s rebuilt.

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