BUILDING TRUST WHEN YOU'RE DIFFERENT FROM THE ROOM SEASON 2, EPISODE 18
Description
EPISODE 18 - Building Trust When Different: Navigating professional environments where your identity or perspective differs from the majority while maintaining connection to your core. Addresses the double bind between adapting and staying centered, provides strategic trust-building approaches, and reframes difference as competitive advantage. Focuses on managing emotional impacts while leveraging unique perspectives for innovation and representation.
JOURNAL PROMPTS - WEEK 18
DAY 1
Principle for Reflection:
When you're different from the dominant culture in professional environments, you face additional challenges that require sophisticated strategies for building trust while maintaining connection to your core rather than erasing your distinctiveness.
Reflection Questions:
- What stands out to me about this reflection?
- How will I use this reflection today?
End of Day Reminiscence:
Where did I experience being different from the room today? How did I navigate this while staying connected to my core identity?
DAY 2
Principle for Reflection:
The double bind of difference creates tension between operating from your center and meeting expectations. The skill is navigating this strategically while maintaining core identity and values rather than choosing either complete adaptation or rigid resistance.
Reflection Questions:
- What stands out to me about this reflection?
- How will I use this reflection today?
End of Day Reminiscence:
What double bind situations did I navigate today? How did I balance centeredness with strategic adaptation?
DAY 3
Principle for Reflection:
Building trust when different requires leading with competence, finding cultural bridges, strategic adaptation, ally development, and clearly articulating the value you bring because of your unique perspective.
Reflection Questions:
- What stands out to me about this reflection?
- How will I use this reflection today?
End of Day Reminiscence:
Which trust-building strategies did I employ today? What was most effective in my particular context?
DAY 4
Principle for Reflection:
Your difference gives you unique assets: different perspectives, cultural competence, resilience, innovation capacity, and representation that creates possibilities for others—these are competitive advantages to leverage.
Reflection Questions:
- What stands out to me about this reflection?
- How will I use this reflection today?
End of Day Reminiscence:
How did my unique background and perspective add value to professional situations today? Where did I successfully leverage difference as an asset?
DAY 5
Principle for Reflection:
Every time you succeed while staying connected to your core identity, you expand definitions of leadership and create space for others—your strategic centeredness contributes to cultural shifts beyond individual success.
Reflection Questions:
- What stands out to me about this reflection?
- How will I use this reflection today?
End of Day Reminiscence:
How did my centered presence in spaces of difference today contribute to broader possibilities? What impact did I have beyond my individual goals?



