Beth & Wayne [Part 1 of 2]: An ADHD Diagnosis, An Injury, And Miscommunication.
Description
Beth & Wayne are in a happy marriage, and consider each other best friends. But, even the healthiest relationships can take a tumble when unforeseen changes enter the picture, and this is what happened when Wayne was suddenly dealing with immense chronic pain, and Beth finally received an ADHD diagnosis. Add to this the pressures of raising their young son, and somewhere in the midst of it all, they lost their ability to communicate easily with each other, and to really understand where each other is coming from.
Listen to Part 2 of Beth & Wayne's sessions here.
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