Setting boundaries is hard. Setting them with people who don’t understand—or don’t care to—is even harder. In this powerful episode, licensed counselor Taylora Bookie of Quies Counseling joins us to unpack how to enforce boundaries with grace, clarity, and love. Together, we explore why boundaries often trigger guilt (especially for Christians), how to handle emotional pushback, and what it really means to protect your peace without losing your compassion. Whether you're healing from trauma, recovering from spiritual manipulation, or simply learning to say “no” without shame, this conversation offers practical tools rooted in both Scripture and wisdom from a licensed counselor.

To find out more about Taylora click HERE.

Recommended books from Taylora Bookie for this topic:

• When to Walk Away:  Finding Freedom from Toxic People by Gary Thomas


• A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships Drama Free by Nedra Glover Tawwab


• Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself by Nedra Glover Tawwab


• Boundaries: When to Say Yes, When to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. Jo


• Setting Boundaries with Difficult People Six Steps to SANITY for Challenging Relationships by Allison Bottke


• Boundaries for Your Soul: How to Turn Your Overwhelming Thoughts and Feelings into Your Greatest Allies

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