Can Grief Make A Child Gay – The Ties Between Loss and Truth
Description
We welcome Heather Hester — LGBTQ+ advocate, coach, author of Parenting with Pride, and host of More Human. More Kind. Together, they explore the intersection of grief, identity, parenting, and unconditional love, offering hope and understanding for families navigating similar journeys.
In this episode I open up about my own experience supporting my child, Max, who came out as transgender after the loss of their father. Dive in as Heather offers compassionate insights into how grief and identity transformation often intertwine, what parents can do to support their LGBTQ+ children, and how to move from fear to fierce, informed love with clarity and courage.
Listeners will gain heartfelt lessons on:
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The connection between grief and self-discovery
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How parents can embrace change with empathy and openness
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Creating safe spaces for authentic expression and healing
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Letting go of expectations and finding peace in the unknown
This episode is a must-listen for parents, allies, and anyone seeking to better understand the evolving landscape of identity, grief, and love. Heather and Susan remind us that kindness and belonging aren't just emotions — they're practices that can transform pain into connection and compassion.
Episode Highlights
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grief and identity
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parenting LGBTQ+ children
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grief and gender identity
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trans youth support
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parenting through grief
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Heather Hester podcast
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More Human More Kind
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Parenting with Pride book
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grief podcast 2025
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LGBTQ+ parenting
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emotional healing after loss
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supporting transgender child
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grief and transformation
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self-compassion and acceptance
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