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Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206

Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206

Update: 2025-10-14
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Welcome listeners! I am thrilled to introduce today's guest, Ashley Arguello co-ceo and co-founder of the innovative new social navigation app canwe. She is a former division one basketball player who shifted to a double major at NYU who combines strategic insight with genuine heart. This week Ashley and I are talking about everything from what it’s like to work with your mans, sustaining friendships through life changes, and what it means to Ashley to be a modern matriarch. Tune in!

 

 

In this episode…

  • Marriage is a team 
  • True forgiveness 
  • Deifying 
  • Us against the problem  
  • Honor & humility 
  • Success 
  • Having a mission together 
  • Being seen, heard, & understood 
  •  Being feminine is beautiful 

 

 

Quotes

“Without God in your marriage, it is impossible.” - Ashley Arguello

“True forgiveness is SO important in marriage.” - Ashley Arguello

“I think that there is room for all of us at the top and that there is more that can happen when we collaborate rather than compete.” - Nikki Spo

“The most successful men are the ones who lift their female partner up with them.” - Nikki Spo

 

 

Timestamps: 

0:00 - 2:10 | Intro 

2:10 - 7:10 | What it means to be married 

7:10 - 11:15 | Forgiveness 

11:15 - 15:55 | Canwe app 

15:55 - 18:40 | Sustaining the faith to follow your passion 

18:40 - 19:55 | Collaboration over competition 

19:55 - 22:00 | Working with your mans 

22:00 - 25:55 | Honoring each other in a marriage   

25:55 - 29:05 | Recognition & appreciation 

29:05 - 31:45 | Projection 

31:45 - 37:25 | Faith based marriage 

37:24 - 42:35 | Motherhood & working 

42:35 - 46:40 | Wanting stability 

46:40 - 47:35 | Jealousy 

47:35 - 49:40 | Being feminine is beautiful 

49:40 - 51:46 | How Ashely and Ernesto have influenced others 

51:46 - 54:55 | Integrity  

54:55 - 1:01:15 | Friendships 

1:01:15 - 1:04:50 | Growth, connection, or transformation 

1:04:50 - 1:07:05 | Outro 

 

 

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Connect with Ashley Arguello 

canwe.app

@ashleytaylorarguello

@canwe_app

 




 

Connect with Nikki 

www.nikkispo.com  

@nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her


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Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206

Can We Connect? Building Love, Leadership, and Friendship with Ashley Arguello. Ep. 206

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