Summary

In this conversation, Wes Ehnert delves into the complexities of self-discovery and personal growth, particularly focusing on the questions we ask ourselves about our desires and career paths. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's core values, distinguishing between what we want to do, what we can do, and what we feel we should do. By encouraging listeners to explore their true desires without the influence of external voices, Wes aims to guide them towards a more fulfilling and authentic life.

Takeaways

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Shift the question to what do I want to do?

Words matter; they represent our truths.

Understanding core values is crucial for decision-making.

Core values can compete with each other.

What I can do may not align with what I want to do.

The 'should' word often reflects external pressures.

Self-reflection is key to discovering true desires.

Banish external voices when contemplating your path.

Exploration is essential for personal growth.

Titles

What Do You Really Want to Do?

Navigating Your Core Values

Sound Bites

"Words matter, by the way."

"Who’s saying it to who?"

"What do I want to do?"

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Career Talk

00:46 Exploring What You Want to Do

05:34 Understanding Your Capabilities

09:48 The Dangers of 'Should' in Career Choices

14:00 Encouragement to Explore Your Desires

Keywords

self-discovery, core values, career choices, personal growth, life goals, what do I want, self-reflection, decision making, personal development, finding purpose