Wellness + Wisdom | Episode 674

What is the key to creating a long-lasting love and relationship?

Daniele Kathryn Hage, Pastor and Podcaster, joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 674, to share her insights on faith, why gender roles are an important component in intimate relationships, and how balancing modern societal pressures with spiritual values creates a strong bond for a healthy and long-lasting marriage.

"There's this big thing about equality - everything has to be equal, men and women are equal, men and women are the same. But in relationships it's way more about equity than it is equality." - Daniele Kathryn Hage

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In This Episode, Daniele Kathryn Hage Uncovers:

[01:30 ] From Pastor to Podcaster

• Daniele Kathryn Hage
• What brought Daniele and her husband to become pastors.
• Why they started podcasting and pastoring online.
• How she handles hateful comments and messages.
• Being different is not something bad.

[06:25 ] Genderless Society

• Genderless Society - Instagram Reel
• According to the Bible, there are only two genders.
• Why we need both the masculine and the feminine.
• God's design is unity and connection, not division.
• Why life is all about love and being a kind human.

[12:20 ] Science VS Spirituality

• Why believing in God and knowing God are two different things.
• How the people who have tried to prove there is no God found God through their research.
• Science is catching up with spirituality.
• What we focus on is what grows.

[16:30 ] Pray In Alignment with God's Will

• The way we pray or meditate is equally as important as how we live our lives.
• Why we need to pray in alignment with God's will and purpose.
• We only get what God wants us to have.
• If our prayers are about helping others, they are most likely going to be heard.

[20:25 ] Male + Female Roles

• Why relationships are more about equity than equality.
• Men and women have different roles.
• Women need to step into their feminine energy when they're with their men.
• Why being in the masculine energy caused fights in Daniele's marriage.
• How to switch from masculine to feminine energy.
• Why men want to come home to be relaxed and have peace.

[26:00 ] Men Transition from Work to Home

• 512 Alison Armstrong: Unconscious Emasculation, What Women Don’t Understand About Men + How To Get The Love You Want
• Why men need half an hour to transition from work to family.
• Women don't need transition time because their brain works differently than men's.
• Why it's harder for women to set boundaries.
• How men can understand women better.

[34:25 ] Do The Inner Work

• 538 John Wineland | A New Masculine Paradigm: Leading With Love, Living Your Truth + Healing The World
• How a man can do the inner work to show up for his woman.
• Our partner can leave us but God will always stay with us.
• How our intention can be perceived differently by another person.

[39:00 ] Self-Love Is Earned

• How Josh understood and started feeling that he has always been loved.
• Why we earn self-love by doing good things for ourselves and others.
• The grace of God is our tuning fork.

[42:30 ] How to Create a Lasting Relationship

• Why having shared values is the fundamental part of a long-lasting relationship.
• What Daniele and her husband learned after 44 years of marriage.
• Relationships are a never-ending work.
• Why obesity is a dealbreaker for Daniele and her husband.
• There is no point of arrival in life.

[49:55 ] The Most Important Relationship Advice

• What we can do to make romantic relationships easier.
• Why we shouldn't try to change the other person.
• How avoiding conflicts will kill a relationship.
• Why talking through conflicts creates more intimacy and connection.
• Pain comes from not talking about problems.

[55:10 ] How to Be a Parent + A Partner

• When a woman focuses too much time and energy on her children, it hurts the relationship.
• How having a good relationship is the best gift parents can give to their children.
• Why Daniele was happy that her parents got divorced.
• How her husband always told their children that their time as a couple was a priority.
• Why having a calendar for intimacy can improve the relationship.

[01:02:50 ] Awaken Your Sex Life

• How to approach lack of sexual connection.
• Sex is a men's need and they will find it elsewhere if they don't get it at home.
• Why sacred sex is a spiritual warfare and an act of oneness.
• How emotional intimacy satisfies both men's and women's needs.

[01:11:10 ] The Impacts of Hedonism

• Why we need to have a connection to a higher power.
• How the demonic agenda is trying to separate people.
• The truth comes from the word of God.

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