Diddy and Our Culture’s ‘Himpathy’ for Powerful Men
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This podcast delves into the recent allegations against Sean Combs (Diddy) for sex trafficking and racketeering, exploring the cultural context of the Me Too movement and its impact on how such accusations are perceived and processed. The discussion highlights the role of the internet in shaping narratives around Diddy's allegations, emphasizing the blurring lines between rumor, speculation, and official news stories. The podcast explores how the internet amplifies conspiracy theories and the challenges of discerning truth from misinformation. The podcast also features a "hot and cold" segment where Jessica shares her thoughts on a thousand-page biography of Sylvia Plath, highlighting its propulsive nature and its exploration of the history of psychiatry and the treatment of women in the mid-century.
Outlines
Diddy's Downfall and the Me Too Movement
This chapter explores the recent allegations against Sean Combs (Diddy) for sex trafficking and racketeering, examining the cultural context of the Me Too movement and its impact on how such accusations are perceived and processed.
The Internet's Role in Shaping Narratives
This chapter examines the role of the internet in shaping narratives around Diddy's allegations, highlighting the blurring lines between rumor, speculation, and official news stories. The discussion explores how the internet amplifies conspiracy theories and the challenges of discerning truth from misinformation.
Hot and Cold: Sylvia Plath's Biography
This chapter features a "hot and cold" segment where Jessica shares her thoughts on a thousand-page biography of Sylvia Plath, highlighting its propulsive nature and its exploration of the history of psychiatry and the treatment of women in the mid-century.
Keywords
Me Too Movement
A social movement that emerged in 2017, encouraging victims of sexual harassment and assault to speak out against their abusers. It has sparked widespread conversations about sexual misconduct and power dynamics.
Sex Trafficking
The act of recruiting, harboring, transporting, or obtaining a person for the purpose of commercial sex acts, often through force, fraud, or coercion. It is a serious crime with devastating consequences for victims.
Conspiracy Theory
An explanation for an event or situation that is based on speculation, conjecture, or unfounded evidence, often involving secret plots or hidden agendas. Conspiracy theories can spread rapidly online and can be difficult to debunk.
Online Rumor Mill
The rapid spread of information, often unverified, through online platforms like social media and forums. The rumor mill can amplify misinformation and contribute to the formation of public opinion.
Hempathy
A term coined by feminist philosopher Kate Manne to describe the default sympathy for men and the male condition, often leading to a cultural inclination to center men's experiences and perspectives.
Structural Predation
A pattern of sexual misconduct that is embedded within an institution or system, often involving power imbalances and a culture of silence. It can be difficult to expose and address due to its systemic nature.
Q&A
How has the Me Too movement impacted the way we perceive and process accusations against powerful figures like Diddy?
The Me Too movement has brought increased awareness to sexual misconduct and power dynamics, but it has also led to a backlash and a higher threshold for evidence. The movement's effectiveness in dismantling structural predation remains a point of debate.
What are the challenges of navigating the internet's role in shaping narratives around scandals like Diddy's?
The internet amplifies rumors and conspiracy theories, blurring the lines between truth and misinformation. It's crucial to be discerning about information sources and to critically evaluate the evidence presented.
How does the "girl dad" defense strategy employed by Diddy's team fit into the broader context of the Me Too era?
This strategy attempts to portray Diddy as a family man, contrasting his alleged actions with a positive image. It reflects a common tactic used by powerful men facing accusations, seeking to deflect blame and maintain public support.
Show Notes
This week we're taking a break from the election and turn our attention to the allegations against Sean Combs: Where has #MeToo succeeded or fallen short? And what happens when the lines blur between rumor mill and conspiracy theory? The Opinion columnist Tressie McMillan Cottom and the Opinion writer Jessica Grose join the conversation. Plus, Jessica has a recommendation for Plath-heads.
(A full transcript of this episode will be available on the Times website.)
Recommended in this episode:
- “With Love, Sean Combs” by Tressie McMillian Cottom in Vanity Fair
- “Sean Combs and the Limits of the ‘Family Man’ Defense” by Jess Grose
- “Entitled | How Male Privilege Hurts Women” by Kate Manne, who coined the term “himpathy”
- “#MeToo Comes for the Archbishop” by Ross Douthat
- “Why We Can’t Quit Brad Pitt” by Scaachi Koul in Slate
- “Red Comet” by Heather Clark
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