In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted? podcast, hosts Emily and Gene Trowbridge delve into the complexities of adoption, focusing on the implications of being told or not told about one's adoption. They explore themes of identity, the emotional impact of adoption, and the relationship between adoption and addiction. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they discuss the importance of open conversations about adoption and the feelings of loss and connection that often accompany the experience. 

The episode emphasizes the need for understanding and empathy in discussions surrounding adoption, highlighting that regardless of when someone learns about their adoption, there is often a sense of something missing in their identity.

• Being told about adoption can shape one's identity.
• The primal wound theory suggests deep emotional impacts from adoption.
• Secrets surrounding adoption can lead to feelings of betrayal.
• Addiction may be influenced by adoption but is not solely caused by it.
• Every adoptee experiences a sense of difference or disconnection.
• The search for biological connections can be a significant part of an adoptee's journey.
• Open conversations about adoption can help break the stigma.
• The emotional weight of adoption can vary greatly among individuals.
• Environmental factors play a role in how adoption is experienced.
• Understanding and empathy are crucial in discussions about adoption.