When you only have a hammer, everything looks like a nail.
We all need the whole toolbox.
Not full of one thing, but with many rulers, saws, pliers, plumb lines.
Where you aim at is where you land.
Even when it takes more time then you expect, the trajectory you pick will carry you forward unless you really bend yourself towards a new path – and this is hard.
Best to draw the bow carefully. Want what you want. Aim at a life you will love.