DiscoverConflict Coach with Dr. Emily TaylorAre you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?
Are you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?

Are you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?

Update: 2025-02-04
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Dr. Emily Taylor coaches a homeowner in conflict with his neighbor over parking. The story you’re telling yourself about a conflict may have important gaps that are preventing you from finding resolution. In this episode, Dr. Emily coaches Logan to consider the narrative he’s created of a disagreement with his neighbor over parking that has escalated to threats of calling the police.

In this episode, you will learn how to:
- Consider the conflict from the other person’s perspective.
- Re-examine the mode of communication you’re using in a conflict.
- Know when to settle for partial resolution of a conflict.

Let us know how these strategies work in your own life! Email Dr. Emily at conflictcoach@byu.edu or connect with her on social media @conflictcoachwithdremily

00:00 Introduction to The Conflict Coach
00:49 Meet Logan and His Parking Conflict
01:12 Logan's Perspective and Initial Actions
05:04 Understanding the Neighbor's Concerns
09:15 Exploring Possible Solutions
13:50 Reflecting on Communication and Relationships
21:41 Key Takeaways and Conflict Resolution Tips
28:43 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview
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Are you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?

Are you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?