E38 - 2025 - The day I stopped coaching the joy out of my kid - guest Joey Elston
Description
Summary
In this engaging conversation, Patrick Sirmeyer and Joey Elston delve into the complexities of youth sports, discussing the balance between competition and development, the challenges of parenting young athletes, and the importance of fostering a love for the game. They share personal anecdotes about coaching experiences, the pressures of youth sports, and the significance of creating a supportive environment for children to thrive. The discussion also touches on the transition from recreational to competitive sports and the impact of family dynamics on young athletes' experiences.
Takeaways
Youth sports can be fun but often lead to overcommitment.
Finding balance is crucial for families involved in sports.
Coaching experiences can teach valuable lessons about development.
Winning should not overshadow the importance of skill growth.
Parents need to learn when to step back and let kids play.
The transition to competitive sports can be challenging for families.
It's important to create a supportive environment for young athletes.
Kids need to experience both winning and losing to grow.
Engaging in sports should be about enjoyment, not just competition.
Parents should model healthy habits and interests outside of sports.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Youth Sports Dynamics
06:02 Navigating Youth Sports Commitments
11:56 Lessons from Coaching Youth Baseball
17:46 Transitioning to Competitive Baseball
23:50 Balancing Family Life and Sports
29:47 Finding Joy in the Game
31:45 Navigating Youth Sports and Parental Expectations
35:53 The Balance of Play and Competition
44:27 The Importance of Hard Work and Commitment
51:32 Reflections on Childhood and Modern Parenting
56:26 Creating Opportunities for Youth Engagement























