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E46 | Lacking boundaries, people pleasing and their links to neurodivergence

E46 | Lacking boundaries, people pleasing and their links to neurodivergence

Update: 2025-12-01
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Content warning: in this episode we lightly touch on abuse, manipulation and sexual assault - between 37 - 40mins - proceed with care.


In this episode we dive into one of the biggest neurodivergent struggles: boundaries. Why do so many AuDHD people become chronic people-pleasers? Why do we say yes when every part of our body is screaming no? Why do we only realise afterwards how we're actually feeling? And why does setting even the smallest boundary feel like we’re letting someone down?

We chat about the link between neurodivergence and people pleasing, how RSD, masking and social survival instincts shape our boundaries (or lack thereof) and we candidly discuss how we're personally going with improving our boundaries.


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E46 | Lacking boundaries, people pleasing and their links to neurodivergence

E46 | Lacking boundaries, people pleasing and their links to neurodivergence