DiscoverExcuse My AfricanEP 40 - Marriage & Contracts
EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts

EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts

Update: 2018-08-17
Share

Description

In This Episode:

A while ago I was watching TV, and the news came on about a very popular female musician in America. She had just gotten a divorce from her husband, and was asked to pay him $50,000 every month in ‘Spousal Support’!

I was shocked beyond words because I could not imagine this happening in Africa. African men are raised to be very independent, and they tend to be slightly egotistical. I was so sure this could not happen in Africa, so I decided to do some research and was surprised by what I found out.

Mentioned In This Episode:
1. Prenups (Prenuptial Agreement): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenuptial_agreement
2. Spousal Support: https://family.findlaw.com/divorce/spousal-support-alimony-basics.html
3. South Africa: http://country.southafrica.net/country/us/en/

Connect:
Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.com
Website: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/
Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.com
Stella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com

Become a supporter of this podcast:

https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support



This podcast is sponsored by Anchor
Comments 
loading
In Channel
EP 50 - Africa Rising
 In This Episode: I will be celebrating Black History Month with a difference. Instead of concentrating on the history of Africans after slavery, I would take you straight to Africa, it’s people and entertainment. I want you to experience the rich culture of our people, as well as some great movies and series that educate you about Africa. As I celebrate my 50th episode, I would love to share the greatness of Africa and her children. We are rising together as a people and the world is paying attention.Mentioned In This Episode:Black History Month: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_History_Month Netflix: https://www.netflix.com Black Earth Rising: https://www.netflix.com/title/80145141   Michaela Coel: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm3948190/ Chewing Gum: https://www.netflix.com/title/80130911  ICC (International Criminal Court): https://www.icc-cpi.int/about Rwandan Genocide: https://www.history.com/topics/africa/rwandan-genocide Hugo Blick: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hugo_BlickMiss Bala: https://www.missbala.movie/ Chiwetel Ejiofor: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0252230/ The boy who harnessed the wind: https://www.netflix.com/title/80200047 Genevieve Nnaji: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genevieve_Nnaji Lionheart: https://www.netflix.com/title/81030789 Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/  Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 50 - Africa Rising

2019-02-0800:09:49

EP 49 - The Truth About Kunta Kinte
 In This Episode: Many of us know of Kunta Kinte from all the slavery stories we've been told. However, most of us do not know the truth about where the name originated from.I will be taking you on a journey of the beautiful country, where the name originated.Mentioned In This Episode:Kunta Kinte: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kunta_Kinte Republic of the Gambia: https://eros.usgs.gov/westafrica/country/republic-gambia Harmattan: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harmattan  Alex Haley: https://www.history.com/topics/black-history/alex-haley Roots: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0075572/ Transatlantic Slave Trade: https://www.usaid.gov/letgirlslearn Afro manding Blues: https://allafrica.com/stories/201405020675.html Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/  Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 49 - The Truth About Kunta Kinte

2019-01-2500:11:50

Episode 48 - Margaret Ekpo : An African Amazon
 In This Episode: I am going to introduce to you, a woman who made a remarkable impact in Nigeria. Many of you may have heard of her in passing, but unfortunately, you may not be aware of all the amazing things she did and how she shaped Nigeria as we know it today. She stood for what she believed in and became a hero of our time. Her name is Margaret Ekpo, and I am honoring her as our African Amazon of the month.Mentioned In This Episode:Margaret Ekpo: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_Ekpo Dublin Institute of Technology: http://www.dit.ie/ Me Too Movement: https://metoomvmt.org/ Time’s Up Movement: https://www.timesupnow.com/ Child Not Bride: https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/ Let Girls Learn: https://www.usaid.gov/letgirlslearn African Feminist: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_feminism Fela Kuti: http://fela.net/  Funmilayo Ransome Kuti: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Funmilayo_Ransome-Kuti Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/  Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

Episode 48 - Margaret Ekpo : An African Amazon

2019-01-1100:14:17

EP 47 - Christmas As An African Child
 In This Episode: I was feeling very nostalgic this Christmas, so I decided to take you all on a journey of how I used to spend Christmas as a kid in Africa!It was so much fun back then because we weren’t bothered about putting up a tree filled with lights and ornaments or what gifts we got. We just loved gathering together to spend time with our family, friends, and neighbors.Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!Mentioned In This Episode:New York City: https://www.nycgo.com/ Rockefeller Center: https://www.rockefellercenter.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 47 - Christmas As An African Child

2018-12-2800:08:33

EP 46 - An African Amazon (Honorable Martha Karua)
In This Episode: Last week, I had the opportunity of meeting a wonderful Kenyan woman. I call her an ’African Amazon’ because she defies the standards of what is expected of an African woman and risks even her own life to seek what is true and just. Honorable Martha Karua, is our African Amazon of the month. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Honorable Martha Karua: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Karua 2. High Court of Kenya: https://www.judiciary.go.ke/courts/high-court-2/ Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 46 - An African Amazon (Honorable Martha Karua)

2018-12-0700:09:47

EP 45 - Cultural Appropriation
In This Episode: There has been a lot of talk about Cultural Appropriation these days, and even though I understand where a lot of people are coming from, I still think there is a bit of a double standard regarding the issue. I know this is a very controversial episode, but it's my opinion, and I would love to hear yours too. [ DISCLAIMER (7:15) - I do not support or condone ‘Black Face’ or any costume that is intended to make a mockery of any race. ]Mentioned In This Episode:1. Braids: https://bit.ly/2P4QxKk 2. Cornrows: https://bit.ly/1QHl7Ab 3. Kardashians: https://eonli.ne/2ItF549 4. LGBTQ: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT5. 4c Natural Hair: https://bit.ly/2yaurIV6. Human Hair: https://bit.ly/2RvEm5J 7. Dashiki: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DashikiConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 45 - Cultural Appropriation

2018-11-0200:10:09

EP 44 - What The Media Will Not Show You About Africa
In This Episode: Over the years, I have watched the media portray Africa and Africans in usually the most horrible light. But, the truth is that there is so much more Africa has to offer. We are much more than they want you to believe. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Vaseline: https://www.vaseline.com/us/en/2. Forbes: https://www.forbes.com/#49eb72fc22543. Otedola: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Femi_Otedola4. Rose of Sharon: http://theroseofsharonfoundation.org/5. Davido: https://www.iamdavido.com/6. Tiwa Savage: https://www.facebook.com/tiwasavage/7. Wizkid: https://www.facebook.com/wizkidmusic/8. Banky W: https://www.instagram.com/bankywellington/?hl=en9. Hard Rock Cafe: https://www.hardrock.com/cafes/lagos/10. Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 44 - What The Media Will Not Show You About Africa

2018-10-0500:08:39

EP 43 - The Relationship Between India & Africa
In This Episode: I was watching a documentary with my husband a while ago, and we were shocked to see an Indian and an African getting married. I have always wondered why it’s so rare to find such a union. Is there some underlying issue between Indians and Africans? We have so much in common, so why is there such a great divide?Mentioned In This Episode:1. Excuse My African Blog: https://www.stelladamasusblog.com/2017/04/excuse-my-african.html2. Code 55 Store: https://www.code55store.com/3. Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/4. Hollywood: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hollywood5. Bollywood: https://www.bollywood.com/6. Nollywood: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nollywood 7. Shah Rukh Khan: https://www.facebook.com/IamSRK/8. Amitabh Bachchan: https://www.facebook.com/AmitabhBachchan/9. Girl Child Education: https://www.worldbank.org/en/topic/girlseducation11. Child Marriage: https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/about-child-marriage/Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.com Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 43 - The Relationship Between India & Africa

2018-09-2100:12:32

EP 42 - Not All African Immigrants Are Illegal
In This Episode: I was absolutely shocked by an article I read on Flipboard, and I just had to share it with you all.NOT ALL AFRICAN IMMIGRANTS ARE ILLEGAL !!!It is wrong to assume that any African you speak to, is an illegal immigrant. Not all Africans aim to make you fall in love with them so that they can marry you for a green card. There are very many legal, educated and hardworking Africans, living in the USA. Mentioned In This Episode:1. CODE 55 Store: https://www.code55store.com2. Flipboard: https://flipboard.com/3. Kenya: http://www.magicalkenya.com/4. Immigration Lawyer: http://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/us-immigration/what-do-immigration-lawyers-do.html5. Green Card: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Permanent_residence_(United_States)Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 42 - Not All African Immigrants Are Illegal

2018-09-0700:06:06

EP 41 - Raising Confident Kids
In This Episode: These days it seems as if the world is getting a little too ‘in their feelings’. I was watching the news a few weeks ago, and they were talking about a lady who was pissed that even though her kids didn’t make it to the top 3 in a competition, they didn’t get trophies. So she decided to buy trophies for them by herself.It got me thinking, are we (especially the people outside Africa) raising our kids to be too emotional? Are we raising them to be able to handle the real world? I don’t know about you, but I will raise my kids in the African way. To be confident in themselves whether they win or not, and to learn to work harder to achieve their goals; instead of rewarding them when they really do not deserve it. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Grade School: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/grade_schoolConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 41 - Raising Confident Kids

2018-08-3100:06:46

EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts
In This Episode: A while ago I was watching TV, and the news came on about a very popular female musician in America. She had just gotten a divorce from her husband, and was asked to pay him $50,000 every month in ‘Spousal Support’!I was shocked beyond words because I could not imagine this happening in Africa. African men are raised to be very independent, and they tend to be slightly egotistical. I was so sure this could not happen in Africa, so I decided to do some research and was surprised by what I found out. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Prenups (Prenuptial Agreement): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prenuptial_agreement2. Spousal Support: https://family.findlaw.com/divorce/spousal-support-alimony-basics.html3. South Africa: http://country.southafrica.net/country/us/en/Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts

2018-08-1700:07:53

EP 39 - Should I Say Sorry?
In This Episode: In Africa, saying sorry to people is a normal thing. We say sorry when we do something wrong but we also say sorry to show compassion and sympathy. It's a part of who we are.However, after some years of living in America, I was shocked to realize that 'sorry' to people here means a whole other thing! Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 39 - Should I Say Sorry?

2018-08-0300:08:03

EP 38 - The Truth About Africa and Refugees
In This Episode: When you speak of refugees, you often think of people fleeing their countries to seek refuge in America or Europe. But did you know that according to the UNHCR, “Sub-Saharan Africa hosts more than 26 percent of the world’s refugee population” !!! Yet, we are made to believe that Africa is so horrible and so much of a sh**hole continent that no one would ever want go to there.Mentioned In This Episode:1. Filipo Grandi: http://www.unhcr.org/en-us/the-high-commissioner.html2. UN: http://www.un.org/en/index.html 3. 2015-2016 Refugee Crisis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_migrant_crisis4. South Sudanese & Congolese Conflicts: https://reliefweb.int/report/democratic-republic-congo/underlying-tensions-south-sudanese-refugees-and-pathways-conflict 5. UNHCR: http://www.unhcr.org/en-us/ Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 38 - The Truth About Africa and Refugees

2018-07-0600:07:28

EP 37 - Can Your Kids Survive?
In This Episode: I was watching a documentary a few weeks ago and was surprised when I found out that a lot of children between the ages of 9 & 13 could not tell the time on an analog clock, only on a digital clock. It made me wonder whether the advancement in technology is doing our children more harm than good. Growing up in Africa, we are taught to handle things with and without the assistance of technology. This is what informed the quote ‘Throw an African man anywhere and he will learn to adapt’ to life. Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 37 - Can Your Kids Survive?

2018-06-2200:05:43

EP 36 - Gender Neutrality
In This Episode: About a week ago, my daughters went to an ‘anti-prom party’ in the city and they had a blast! However, of all the memories they made that night, the one that would probably never leave her mind was when she had to use the bathroom only to realize that the bathrooms at the venue were gender neutral. I believe that everyone should be allowed to live their truth and be themselves freely, but do you think maybe allowing young boys and girls, who are in the stage of discovery and curiosity; use the same bathroom at the same time might just be taking it too far?Mentioned In This Episode:1. Anti-Prom Party: https://www.nypl.org/education/teens/anti-prom2. NYC Public Library: https://www.nypl.org/3. Gender Neutral Bathrooms: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unisex_public_toiletConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 36 - Gender Neutrality

2018-06-1500:06:23

EP 35 - Teaching Your Kids Your Language
In This Episode: I am talking about the importance of teaching your children how to speak your local African language, especially if you live outside of the continent of Africa.It is important that our children stay connected to their roots because there would come a time where the world would turn back to Africa, and you do not want them to be considered the lost ones when that happens. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Pidgin English: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_English-based_pidgins2. Igbo Language: http://aboutworldlanguages.com/igbo3. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/4. Obyno Daddy Muna: https://www.instagram.com/obynodaddymuna/5. ESL: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_as_a_second_or_foreign_languageConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://w Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 35 - Teaching Your Kids Your Language

2018-06-0800:10:241

EP 34 - Saying "I Love You"
In This Episode: Growing up, I rarely heard my parents say the words ‘I love you’ to themselves. I knew they loved each other, I saw it in their interactions and the respect they had for each other. However, they would hardly ever say those 3 words. Over the years, I got very curious so I put out a question on social media “Did you or have you ever heard your parents say I LOVE YOU to each other?” and from the responses, I realized that it wasn’t just my parents but the parents of very many Africans. Could it be a thing of their generation? Or could it have to do with culture? Join me on this episode, as I speak about what I have learnt about Africans and saying the words ‘I Love You”Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 34 - Saying "I Love You"

2018-06-0100:08:44

EP 33 - Being Proud of Your Work
In This Episode: Having lived in Nigeria for over 30 years, I visited the USA quite a lot and I had this impression about what kinds of jobs are considered prestigious or not. However, after living in the USA for some years, my mindset has totally changed. I have come to the realization that as long as the work you are doing is legal, there is no such thing as prestigious work when it comes to making money, paying your bills and taking care of your family. The American system makes sure that as long as you have a certain amount of money, you are able to have the necessities and live a certain kind of lifestyle. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Laundromat: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-service_laundry 2. Walmart: https://www.walmart.com/ Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 33 - Being Proud of Your Work

2018-05-2500:08:00

EP 32 - The 4c Natural Hair
In This Episode: There has been a lot of controversy around 'Natural Hair' and how you choose to wear it or protect it. Some black women seem to think that other black women who choose to wear wigs and do several different protective styles do not 'embrace their kink and curls'. So I decided to share my thoughts on this issue. I hope to hear from you after you listen Mentioned In This Episode:1. 4c Natural Hair: https://www.naturallycurly.com/hair-types/coily 2. Protective Styling: http://madamenoire.com/199722/breaking-down-the-point-of-a-protective-hairstyle-what-exactly-should-you-be-protecting/ 3. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My- Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 32 - The 4c Natural Hair

2018-05-1800:07:46

EP 31 - American Schools
In This Episode: A lot of American School Students are very privileged and sometimes, I think some take it for granted. We have some very great schools in Africa, but a majority of the schools, especially those funded by the government; aren’t the best. So you can imagine my shock when I heard that some students in this First World Country complained about ‘their rights being violated, and the school authorities not caring about them’ because their SODAS had been reduced, and they were given more vegetables at their FREE lunch. Sometimes people need to see what others are going through in other parts of the world so that they can value where they are and the privileges they have. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.com/ Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemy Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 31 - American Schools

2018-05-1100:07:35

EP 30 - The African Narrative
In This Episode: Since the release of Black Panther, there has been a massive increase in the love and appreciation of African Culture, African Fashion, African Music, and African Dance. As a matter of fact, more people have gotten their DNA tested to determine their Ancestry, and people now celebrate whatever percent of African they have in them!We are very happy to see all the love people have for Africa, but we can’t help but wonder when the AFRICAN PEOPLE would receive as much love and acceptance as AFRICA. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Black Panther: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1825683/ 2. Dashiki: https://www.dashikipride.com 3. Wakanda: http://marvel.com/universe/Wakanda#axzz5DBadyKla 4. Amazon Queens of Dahomey: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dahomey_Amazons 5. Mansa Kankan Musa: https://www.history.com/news/who-was-the-richest-man-in-history-mansa-musa 6. An African Girl Abroad: https://www.facebook.com/AnAfricanGirlAbroad/ 7. Mon Afrik TV: https://www.monafriktv.c Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 30 - The African Narrative

2018-04-2000:06:45

EP 29 - Tourism & Africa
In This Episode: When you speak of Tourism and vacations, very few people look to Africa and when they do, they only go to the same places.Which is why in this episode, we are going to introduce you to The Obudu Ranch and Resort located in Nigeria. It is a wonderful vacation destination with amazing sights and lots of family-friendly activities. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Obudu Ranch and Resort: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obudu_Mountain_Resort Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 29 - Tourism & Africa

2018-04-1300:04:35

EP 28 - Winnie Mandela
In This Episode: She was a woman of strength, she was a woman of courage, she was a woman who fought for her people. She was an anti-apartheid activist, a politician and she was the mother of South Africa. Winnie Mandela, a true African woman. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Winnie Mandela: http://www.sahistory.org.za/people/winnie-madikizela-mandela 2. African National Congress (ANC Party) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_National_Congress 3. Nelson Mandela - https://www.nelsonmandela.org/content/page/biography 4. South Africa - http://country.southafrica.net/country/us/en Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Excuse-My-African-1360118967397852/ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 28 - Winnie Mandela

2018-04-0600:06:12

EP 27 - Gun Control & The African
In This Episode: According to CNN.com, “We're only 11 weeks into 2018, and there have already been 17 school shootings (in the USA) where someone was hurt or killed. That averages out to 1.5 shootings a week”. Also according to CNN.com “American’s own nearly half (48%) of the estimated 650* million civilian-owned guns worldwide. Africa has constantly been referred to as a third-world continent, some people even say we are “backward in our thinking and actions”; but I think that when it comes to Gun control, America has a thing or two to learn from our continent. Allowing any and every one to have such a powerful weapon in their possession, is something I feel is worth rethinking. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Gun Control: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gun_control Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitte Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 27 - Gun Control & The African

2018-03-2300:07:32

EP 26 - The Dahomey Amazons
In This Episode: The Dahomey Amazons were some of the fiercest women to walk this earth!In the spirit of Women’s History Month, we will be sharing the story of these fearless women who went above and beyond to defend their people, leaving their mark in history as the greatest all-female military regiment.Mentioned In This Episode:1. International Women's Day: https://www.internationalwomensday.com 2. Black Panther: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1825683/3. Dahomey: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dahomey 4. Viola Davis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Viola_Davis 5. Lupita Nyong’o: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lupita_Nyong%27o6. Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/7. FBI: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Federal_Bureau_of_Investigation8. KGB: https://simple.wikipedia.org/wiki/KGBConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: ht Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 26 - The Dahomey Amazons

2018-03-1600:07:45

EP 25 - Breaking The Glass Ceiling & Women
In This Episode: It’s Women’s month and we are dedicating this month to celebrating amazing African Women who are doing extraordinary things. In this episode, I would introduce you to Angel Vendeline Namshali, a Tanzanian woman who withstood the barriers of being deprived of an education because she is a ‘girl child’; to become the first woman (worldwide)to run a resort that is managed and run by an all-female staff.Mentioned In This Episode:1. International Womens Day: https://www.internationalwomensday.com 2. Press For Progress: https://www.internationalwomensday.com/Theme3. Angel Vendeline Namshali: https://www.asiliaafrica.com/meet-the-angel-of-the-serengeti/ 4. Usambara Mountains: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Usambara_Mountains 5. Asilia Africa: https://www.asiliaafrica.com6. Tanzania Dunia Camp: https://www.asiliaafrica.com/east-africa-safari/tanzania/serengeti/dunia-camp/7. Trip Advisor: https://www.tripadvisor.com Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsi Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 25 - Breaking The Glass Ceiling & Women

2018-03-0900:09:46

EP 24 - Black Panther, Hollywood & The African
In This Episode: “The African and Hollywood”; this was the idea that birthed Excuse My African. When I started this podcast in 2017, Hollywood was at a point where they weren’t ready for MY kind of ‘African’. In the exact words of a Casting Director, I am not “African Enough”.Fast forward to February 2018 and Black Panther, a movie that praises and glorifies the beauty of Africa; is currently the number 1 movie in the whole world. However, this hasn’t changed the tune of Hollywood. In this episode, I will tell you about a very recent experience I had with an agency. This time it wasn’t about my looks, it was about my accent. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Black History Month: http://www.history.com/topics/black-history/black-history-month 2. UN: http://www.un.org/en3. Women’s Month: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_History_Month4. Black Panther: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1825683/ 5. Dialect Coach: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialect_coach6. Gringo: http://www.im Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 24 - Black Panther, Hollywood & The African

2018-03-0200:12:46

EP 23 - Africa Before The Slavery PT. 3 "The Benin Empire"
In This Episode: As the Black History Month Celebration comes to an end, we have decided to share with you, the oldest surviving kingdom in the world, The Great Benin Empire which is located in Nigeria, Africa.This year, our aim during Black History Month was to educate and remind people about African history before the slavery. Even though this month is coming to an end, we must not forget to continue celebrating Black History and the beauty of Africa and Africans. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Edo State: http://www.edostate.gov.ng 2. Benin Empire: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benin_Empire3. Oba Ewuare: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ewuare4. Harlem: https://www.nycgo.com/boroughs-neighborhoods/manhattan/harlem5. The Great Wall of China: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Wall_of_China6. James Robert Phillips: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Robert_Phillips 7. Queen Idia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Idia 8. Queen Iden: http://www.edoworld.net/Queen_Iden_of_Benin_ Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 23 - Africa Before The Slavery PT. 3 "The Benin Empire"

2018-02-2300:08:09

EP 22 - Africa Before The Slavery PT. 2 "Queen Amina"
In This Episode: Still, in the spirit of celebrating Black History Month, we are going to take you on a journey through the life of one of the greatest and most courageous African Queen's to walk this earth, Queen Amina of Zazzau. This month, we are celebrating the history of the times before slavery, the Black History we should never forget to celebrate.Mentioned In This Episode:1. Queen Amina: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amina 2. Zazzau (Zaria): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zazzau 3. Queen Bakwa: http://www.whenweruled.com/?p=844. Turunku: http://allafrica.com/stories/200607170777.html5. Amina Walls: http://digest.bellafricana.com/tourist-attractions-in-nigeria-part-2/Connect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Face Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 22 - Africa Before The Slavery PT. 2 "Queen Amina"

2018-02-0900:07:23

EP 21 - Africa Before The Slavery
In This Episode: Welcome to Black History Month!Usually what people celebrate during this period are the achievements of African-Americans after the slave trade, or how they persevered through the slavery. However, a lot of people do not know about the great things and great people that lived in Africa before the slave trade. So in honor of this year's celebration, we have decided to take you back in time to the days before slavery. The days of the African Kings and Queens, the Black History we should never forget to celebrate as well. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Black History Month: http://www.history.com/topics/black-history/black-history-month 2. Kush: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingdom_of_Kush 3. Axum: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Axum 4. Black Panther Movie: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1825683/5. Hollywood: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cinema_of_the_United_States 6. King Mansa Musa: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Musa_I_of_Mali7. Niger City: https://en.w Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 21 - Africa Before The Slavery

2018-02-0200:13:57

EP 20 - Unsung African Heroes : "Abebech Gobena"
In This Episode: When you speak of ‘Heroes’ in Africa, you immediately think of people like Nelson Mandela, Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf, Desmond Tutu and others. However, Africa has a lot of other Unsung Heroes. Today, I will introduce you to Africa’s Mother Teresa; Abebech Gobena. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Abebech Gobena : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abebech_Gobena 2. Agohelma : http://agohelma.org 3. Ethiopia : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethiopia 4. Mother Teresa : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother_Teresa5. Africa : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Africa 6. Google : https://www.google.com 7. Addis Ababa : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Addis_AbabaConnect:Email: excusemyafrican@gmail.comWebsite: http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ Stella Damasus Blog: http://www.stelladamasusblog.comStella Damasus Website : https://www.stelladamasus.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/excusemyafrican Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/realexcusemyafrican/ Facebook: https://www.fac Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 20 - Unsung African Heroes : "Abebech Gobena"

2018-01-2600:06:49

EP 19 - "S***hole" Africa
In This Episode: I woke up a few days ago to hear that some certain individual, had referred to my beautiful continent Africa and Haiti as a s***hole continent and country. Instead of getting angry, I decided to respond with positivity. Which is what I have decided to do all of 2018. I will not give power to people who try to bring me down, and that’s exactly what we African’s need to do too. I’m proudly African, and I love my s***hole continent!Mentioned In This Episode:1. Africa : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Africa 2. Haiti : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haiti 3. Michelle Obama : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Michelle_Obama 4. Excuse My African : http://www.excusemyafrican.com/ 5. David Oyelowo : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Oyelowo 6. Lupita Nyong’o : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lupita_Nyong%27o 7. Uzo Aduba : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uzo_Aduba 8. Chiwetel Ejiofor : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chiwetel_Ejiofor 9. O.T. Fagbenle : https://en.wikipe Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 19 - "S***hole" Africa

2018-01-1900:08:34

EP 18 - Africa in 2017
In This Episode: Happy New Year and welcome to 2018! Before we continue to take you on a journey through Africa and tell you about all her amazing countries and people. We decided that for our first episode of 2018, we will take you back in time and tell you about 5 amazing and historic things that happened in 2017.Mentioned In This Episode:1. George Weah - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Weah2. Liberia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liberia 3. Ellen Johnson Sirleaf - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ellen_Johnson_Sirleaf 4. Wizkid - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wizkid_(musician) 5. Afrobeats - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Afrobeat 6. Royal Albert Hall - https://www.royalalberthall.com 7. Coachella- https://www.coachella.com8. Hello Rain- http://www.okayafrica.com/hello-rain-is-an-afrofuturistic-short-film-based-on-nnedi-okorafors-hello-moto/ 9. Nnedi Okorafor - http://nnedi.com 10. Hello Moto - https://www.tor.com/2011/11/02/hello-moto/11. CJ Obasi - ht Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 18 - Africa in 2017

2018-01-0500:07:10

EP 17 - Stop Being Ignorant
In This Episode: For a long time there have been so many myths about the beautiful continent of Africa, and till this day there are people that still believe these outrageous stories.Today I am going to debunk all these crazy myths and beliefs. People need to stop being ignorant. Mentioned In This Episode:1. Kenya - http://www.magicalkenya.com 2. Safari - http://www.nationalgeographicexpeditions.com/triptypes/safaris 3. Nigeria - http://www.nigeria.gov.ng 4. Lamborghini - https://www.lamborghini.com/en-en/ 5. Ferrari - https://www.ferrari.com/en-US 6. Land Rover - https://www.landroverusa.com/index.html 7. Range Rover- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Range_Rover8. Limousine- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limousine 9. Cadillac - http://www.cadillac.com 10. Wole Soyinka - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wole_Soyinka11. Professor Chinua Achebe - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinua_Achebe12. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie - https://www.chimamanda.com 13. New York - http: Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 17 - Stop Being Ignorant

2017-12-2200:14:48

EP 16 - My Africa
In This Episode: Africa has a very rich History, that goes way beyond slavery and poverty. Civilization, Education, and even one of the wealthiest Kings in all of history can be linked back to Africa, but unfortunately, people do not know this. I will take you on a journey back in time to My Africa, the Africa that the whole world should know.Mentioned In This Episode:1. Ethiopia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethiopia 2. Harpoon Points - http://alligator-hunting-equipment.com/harpoonpoles.html3. Katanga, Zaire (Republic of Congo) - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_Katanga4. Hematite Mine - http://whc.unesco.org/en/tentativelists/5421/5. Swaziland - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swaziland6. Adrian Boshier - http://africanicons.co.za/blog/tag/adrian-boshier/#sthash.B2lb5Lmb.dpbs7. Ishango Bone- http://www.math.buffalo.edu/mad/Ancient-Africa/ishango.html8. The Great sphinx of Giza- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Great_Sphinx_of_Giza 9. The Ancient Egyptian Become a supporter of this podcast:https://anchor.fm/excusemyafrican/support This podcast is sponsored by Anchor

EP 16 - My Africa

2017-12-1500:12:01

Google Play
Download from Google Play
Castbox
Download from App Store
usUnited States
00:00
00:00
1.0x

0.5x

1.0x

1.5x

2.0x

3.0x

EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts

EP 40 - Marriage & Contracts