This week we’re celebrating the 50th episode of the AllPaths Podcast. For this milestone, we welcome special guest, friend, colleague, and AllPaths board member, Elizabeth Carr. Known worldwide as the first IVF baby born in the United States, Elizabeth shares the incredibly pioneering journey of her parents, Judy and Roger. Massachusetts residents who had to travel back and forth to Norfolk, Virginia because IVF was illegal in their home state at the time, they turned to IVF after medical complications from a ruptured appendix and three life-threatening ectopic pregnancies ultimately led to the removal of both fallopian tubes.

Elizabeth details how her parents took a huge leap of faith based on a single, black-and-white, five-sentence flyer given to them by their OB/GYN. Their successful cycle involved developing the very first hormone protocol and resulted in only two eggs retrieved and one transfer. Despite facing intense media scrutiny around the birth, her parents immediately chose to forgo privacy so the world would know that this option was available and that their baby was "healthy and normal," a mission that Elizabeth actively carries on today. She explains that her work as a patient advocate, journalist, author, and board member is her deeply personal way of saying "thank you" to the entire fertility field—from doctors and nurses to therapists and organizations like AllPaths—for making her life possible.

Driven by a fear that IVF offspring might become an "endangered species" following the Alabama court decision in 2024, Elizabeth has taken on a more urgent and powerful role in advocacy. She has leveraged her experience growing up under media scrutiny to become a loud voice for the community, which resulted in her being invited to the State of the Union and helping to rally efforts to restart IVF services in Alabama. Elizabeth, who currently works in patient advocacy and marketing for a genetic testing company, offers advice to those navigating infertility and for those supporting a loved one, but most importantly emphasizes that while she chooses to share her story, there is "zero pressure" for others to do so, affirming that everyone has a valuable place in the community regardless of how they show up.

Connect with Elizabeth at https://ejordancarr.com/ or on Instagram @ejordan12

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TOPICS COVERED IN THIS EPISODE:

family building, assisted reproductive technology, IVF support, infertility journey IVF, in vitro fertilization, family building community, emotional support for parents, infertility resources, personal IVF stories, connections through infertility, reproductive technology, infertility awareness, IVF success stories, patient advocacy, family planning options, fertility treatment, reproductive healthcare, insurance coverage, fertility advocacy

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