Ep. 024 - The Challenge of Leading Yourself - Conversation with Miles Welch of Northstar Training Solutions
Description
On this episode of the Nutritional Therapy and Wellness Podcast, host Jamie Belz talks with Miles Welch, Founder and CEO of North Star Training Solutions, about the importance and difficulties of being a good leader - for ourselves.
Miles is a leadership expert who is passionate about helping business owners build their leadership bench and develop their leadership potential.
He has impacted thousands of executives, entrepreneurs, and business owners through his speaking and coaching, as well as the industry-leading developmental programming he has designed.
Miles's varied leadership assignments include serving as a Platoon Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps, pastoring one of the largest churches in the United States, serving as the Executive Director of the John Maxwell Leadership Center, and launching two successful businesses.
Miles and his family live in the Atlanta area.
During their conversation, Jamie and Miles cover many topics in relation to building resilience and having the discipline to level-up and ultimately succeed in all areas of life.
04:07 Entropy
06:25 Busyness
07:12 Resilience and the difference between pressure and stress
10:53 The shame of not "succeeding"
14:56 The key to high performance
15:14 Midlife Crisis
16:25 Doing a life audit and recalibration
21:18 Tips on resilience and holding yourself accountable
22:28 Staying up late versus getting up early
23:12 Stream of consciousness writing
25:09 Television detox
26:36 Journaling, reading (growing/learning) and Miles's morning routine
29:44 The reshaping of friendships as life gets busy - kids' activities and youth sports
33:12 Miles's evening routing
34:10 Quit eating earlier in the evening - the blood sugar rollercoaster - craving carbs at night - blood sugar's impact on sleep - waking up in the night
36:46 The upward or downward spiral of wellness and healthy versus unhealthy habits
37:26 Having accountability partners
37:45 Miles's primary core values #1
38:54 Hiding things in life - vulnerability - talking with others - working with a counselor
40:36 Life hack for "receiving counseling from Brene Brown and other high-level professionals"
42:05 The three-pronged system for working through being "stuck" in life
44:30 Wisdom and the benefit of having mentors
45:53 Miles's primary core values #2
46:47 Miles's primary core values #3
46:58 Having a life that is integrated - having a surrendered relationship with the truth
47:39 Miles's primary core values #4
49:42 The hardest challenge in leading yourself
51:08 The lie we tell ourselves about "the season coming" when everything will be different or easier - not living in the now
53:43 Don't squander another minute, hour, day, week, month, year, decade…
54:18 The upward spiral or the downward spiral
54:36 The best pre-workout
55:48 Being kind to yourself
57:24 Getting better at failing
58:37 Bounce-back rate - falling off the wagon - small vices
59:54 Miles's favorite self-improvement resources
Email Miles Welch: Miles@northstartraining.com
Website: https://northstartraining.com/
Socials:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/themileswelch/
https://www.instagram.com/themileswelch/
Books mentioned:
Developing the Leader Within You - John Maxwell
The Endurance: Legendary Antarctic Expedition - Caroline Alexander
The Greatest Generation - Tom Brokaw
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