DiscoverHelp Me Be MeEp 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great
Ep 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great

Ep 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great

Update: 2020-05-09
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This is an episode for if you have a painful obsession with an ex or a pervasive habit of fixating on relationships: they’re more important than job, personal time, family and friends. And often that relationship is one you know isn’t great – but you still obsess about that person, and it consumes your life. This might be especially painful during quarantine because you’re unable to distract yourself and do something about it.

This is about putting yourself in ridiculously desperate positions, clinging to a relationship – even when you know it isn’t right for you. And that gush of fear, terror, loneliness, pain that overwhelms you and causes you to feel like you’d do ANYTHING to get someone to come back to you. It can make you act in crazy and degrading ways – but the pain of not having a person is too great. This was a request from a few different people (some of whom requested it quite a long time ago - so hopefully this is still helpful)!!

The two books I mention in this episode are here:
https://amzn.to/2SOD9d2
https://amzn.to/35IuJsU

For more of my work and to make a donation, head to YayWithMe.com xo!
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Ep 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great

Ep 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great

Sarah May B.