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Ep 18 - Why Your Waves Won't Hold: The REAL Reasons Your Hair Falls Flat

Ep 18 - Why Your Waves Won't Hold: The REAL Reasons Your Hair Falls Flat

Update: 2025-12-10
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If your waves look ah-mazing for 10 minutes and then slowly collapse into limp, stretched-out noodles… this episode is for you. In episode 18 (episode 8 of season 2), we're breaking down the actual reasons wavy hair won't hold shape — and spoiler: It's NOT because your hair isn't "curly enough."

We dive into the science of wave formation, the biggest routine mistakes people don't even know they're making, and the surprising factors (weather, buildup, wrong products, technique gaps, and even haircut structure) that sabotage definition before your hair even dries. If you've ever felt defeated by flat waves, crunchy roots, stringy ends, or curls that only last until lunchtime, buckle up. By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly what to adjust — and why your hair absolutely can hold shape with the right approach.

We're also following up on our Two Wavy Girls' 30-Day Grateful Curls Challenge If you'd like to jump on the bandwagon, it's not too late! Download your Grateful Curls Challenge guide here: https://bit.ly/twgchallenge

Also? We're here to take care of you! Book in-person or virtual sessions, get our favorite products, free guides, etc: 
Alyson's: https://bio.site/alysonlupo   
Courtney's: https://linktr.ee/swavycurlycourtney  

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With a salon in North Dallas, Texas, Alyson Lupo (@alysonlupo_reallifecurlygirl) is a former Fortune 500 corporate communications pro turned professional hair stylist and educator with a passion for wavy hair and a fascination for product formulation. She has shared her healthy hair journey on social media for nearly 10 years.

Courtney (@swavycurlycourtney)
Hey, I'm Courtney! When my hair had the odd bend and kink in it, little did I know my unhealthy hair was truly wavy and curly! Through my healthy hair journey, I have come to embrace the hair I have been "fearfully and wonderfully made with".

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Find Alyson on these platforms:
Website: https://alysonlupo.com/ 
Newsletter: https://bit.ly/wavylifeemail 
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/reallifecurlygirl 
Instagram: https://instagram.com/alysonlupo_reallifecurlygirl 
Facebook: https://facebook.com/alysonlupo_reallifecurlygirl 

Find Courtney on these platforms:
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@swavycurlycourtney 
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swavycurlycourtney/ 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/swavycurlycourtney 

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Ep 18 - Why Your Waves Won't Hold: The REAL Reasons Your Hair Falls Flat

Ep 18 - Why Your Waves Won't Hold: The REAL Reasons Your Hair Falls Flat

Alyson Lupo & Swavy Curly Courtney