DiscoverF*CK Trauma PodcastEp 45: 7 Tough Truths About Avoidants (That I Wish I Knew Sooner)
Ep 45: 7 Tough Truths About Avoidants (That I Wish I Knew Sooner)

Ep 45: 7 Tough Truths About Avoidants (That I Wish I Knew Sooner)

Update: 2025-09-26
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Struggling with anxious attachment and tired of avoidants pulling away?


This episode is not what you think. And it’s exactly what you need to hear.

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If you’ve ever spiralled after being ghosted, obsessed over why they suddenly pulled away, or questioned whether you’re too much, this is your wake-up call.

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But be warned:This isn’t the same surface-level advice telling you to “just act cool” or “don’t double text.”

.This is the truth that will set you free.

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In this raw, no-BS episode, I reveal 7 tough truths about avoidants that most people will never tell you - because they haven’t lived it, or they’re still stuck in the same patterns.

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Inside this episode:

  • The real reason they pulled away (and how your energy shifted first)

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  • Why it’s not about them abandoning you - it’s about you abandoning yourself

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  • How anxious attachment manifests as self-rejection, not just “neediness”

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  • Why even when you stop texting… you might still be energetically chasing

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  • What it actually takes to stop attracting avoidants - for good

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Want to go deeper?My masterclass Stop Them Pulling Away is now live.

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You’ll learn exactly how to shift the anxious energy that’s subtly pushing people away, so you feel secure, wanted, and deeply met in love.

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⁠⁠Click here to join Stop Them Pulling Away now⁠⁠

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Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠

Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠

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Ep 45: 7 Tough Truths About Avoidants (That I Wish I Knew Sooner)

Ep 45: 7 Tough Truths About Avoidants (That I Wish I Knew Sooner)

Candice Tamara