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We’ve all been there. Sitting in a doctor’s office, trying to explain what’s really going on, only to walk out feeling unheard, unseen, or flat-out dismissed.
 In this episode, we get real about one of the most frustrating parts of managing diabetes and chronic illness: when your provider doesn’t listen.

We're breaking down what to do in that moment (without losing our cool), how to follow up afterward, and how to find a provider who actually respects our lived experience. Because being a “good patient” doesn’t mean being a quiet one. It means being an advocate for ourselves and our health.

If you’ve ever left an appointment angry, confused, or doubting your own intuition, this episode will remind you: you are not the problem, and you are not alone.

In This Episode, We’ll Talk About:

• The emotional impact of not being heard by your doctor
• Why it happens more often than people realize — especially for women with diabetes
• What to say in the moment when you’re being brushed off
• How to document and follow up after a dismissive appointment
• Finding (and keeping) providers who actually listen
• Redefining what it means to be a “good patient”

You can’t control how they show up in that exam room, but you can control how you advocate for yourself when they don’t. You are the expert on your body, and your voice belongs in every conversation about your care.

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Medical disclaimer: The information presented in this podcast is intended for general informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. It is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read or heard in this podcast. Reliance on any information provided is solely at your own risk.