Lauren joins us today from Australia sharing her two Cesarean stories and her surprise unassisted HBA2C story! 

Lauren’s first birth was a crash Cesarean under general anesthesia at 40+1 due to nonreassuring fetal heart tones. Her second birth was a TOLAC going into spontaneous labor at 40+3 under the midwifery model of care. She labored naturally, had an artificial rupture of membranes at 6 centimeters, baby was posterior, and didn’t descend. She pushed for an hour then had a spinal given to help baby manually rotate. Lauren’s birth ended in a CBAC which she later learned included a special scar along with the diagnosis of CPD (Cephalopelvic Disproportion). 

Two years later, Lauren was vigorously planning for a VBA2C. She had her birth team picked out and was ready to go to the hospital for when baby would come at what she thought would be 40 weeks again or later. At 38 weeks and 2 days, her husband went on a work trip 3 hours away and her mom, who was planning on caring for her boys during the birth, was an hour away on a day trip. 

Lauren’s labor began in the evening while she was alone with her two boys and ramped up extremely fast. With the help of her doula and paramedics supervising, Lauren labored and gave birth to her baby on the bathroom floor in just 2 hours from start to finish!

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Full Transcript under Episode Details 

Meagan: Hello, Women of Strength. You guys, we have another story coming from Australia for you today. We just recently had an Australian mama and I love our Australian episodes because I cannot get enough of your accent. I love listening to you guys. We’re so excited. We have our friend, Lauren, and we have our little baby. 

Lauren: Yes. Little Wren’s awake and joining us. 

Meagan: It’s 11:00 PM there so she stayed up extra late to record with us today. We are going to get into her stories. You guys, she had two C-sections. 

Lauren: Yes, two Cesareans. 

Meagan: And then a surprise. I feel like you really had very unique things. You had an OB and you were under general– 

Lauren: For my first. 

Meagan: Then you were with midwifery care and then a surprise which you are going to be sharing here in a second. You guys, I’m really excited to hear her stories. We do have a Review of the Week and it’s called, “So Grateful I Found This Podcast” by shinefortheworldtosee. It says, “After having an emergency C-section last year, I struggled with all of these displaced emotions. Here I was so grateful for my healthy baby but I found myself feeling hurt like I had something taken from me that I struggled finding a safe place to share and it felt as if no one around me had ever experienced the same thing I did. This podcast and group of women are my safe place. I am expecting baby number two and am so, so grateful for the empowerment that those stories told here have given me. I am so excited to try for a VBAC this time and the more I learn here, the more confident I become.

“Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making this podcast.” 

You are so welcome. I love this podcast so much. I love all of the stories. I love the empowerment, the encouragement, the education, and also, I’m a big person who relates. I love relating. I think it brings validation to my heart when I can relate to someone because like this listener said, she felt alone. She didn’t have anybody else in her space and this space is so amazing because even if it’s a different outcome or there are different parts of the story, there are usually little blurbs of each story that you can truly relate to. Thank you so much for your review, shinefortheworldtosee. As always, if you haven’t yet, please leave us a review. We are always so grateful for them. 

Meagan: Okay, cute Lauren. Oh my gosh. Thank you so much for staying up way late because by the time we are done recording this, it’s going to be midnight. Oh my goodness. Oh my gosh, thank you. 

Lauren: That’s okay. I got the time and said, “Oh, it is late,” but I was so excited anyway. I just can’t wait. With that review, I was thinking the exact same thing. I remember when I found the podcast, I can’t even remember. I was trying to think how it popped up. I didn’t even know VBAC was a thing after my first birth. I just remember listening to it and so much of it resonated. I could relate to those little bits. It was like I was meant to hear it. I just had that strong feeling when I started listening to the podcast. I’d be crying in the car and it was just so powerful. It definitely was life-changing when I found the podcast. Huge. 

I feel like there are so many situations where you’ve never met them ever in your life. Sometimes we don’t even know where they are at and it feels like they are literally sitting on the phone talking to you. 

Lauren: Speaking to you, yes. 

Meagan: Speaking to you. Yes. 

Lauren: Yes, exactly. I felt it. I was just like, This is what I’m supposed to be listening to at this exact time because it was speaking directly to me. It is so special what you have created. I think there is a podcast now in Australia for VBAC but there was never anything before and I would just eat them up. I’d be waiting every week for the podcast because I would be–

Meagan: Is it Ashley’s? 

Lauren: There’s that one. I think I’ve listened to her podcast with you actually. There’s the “Australian VBAC Stories” as well. They are only maybe up to 8 or 10 episodes so they are quite fresh. 

Meagan: Yay. 

Lauren: I just love all VBAC stories. I could listen to them all day. 

Meagan: Absolutely. Well, let’s get going on sharing yours. 

Lauren: Yes. Okay, so my first birth was– I got pregnant in 2017. We’ve got three little ones now. Nate was our first baby. We had private health insurance. A few of our friends had gone private. Some of them had gone public. Some had Cesareans. Some had natural births. I hadn’t really had a plan of what I wanted to do. I always knew I wanted to have children but I hadn’t really given much thought to the pregnancy or the way of birth or anything like that. 

We just signed up with a private OB. I think from our GP, you get a referral then you start seeing them from about 16-20 weeks. You get all the regular scans. Everything was really straightforward. We were really fortunate with our pregnancy. We found out we were having a boy. We found out in– I think I’ve written it down– January. 

I had morning sickness for the first 3 months then I had a bit of Vitamin D deficiency so I had to take supplements throughout the pregnancy for that. I had a growth scan around 36 weeks. Now, I obviously know after doing a lot of research that there’s no real need for it and it’s just something to give them ammunition to schedule the big baby and the scan actually came back that he was measuring fine. 

I was like, “Yep, that’s good.” Being a first-time mum, I was so excited to see him on the ultrasound anyway. 

Meagan: That’s what I was going to say. I feel like they get you especially for first-time moms but really in general because it’s so fun to see our baby. Yeah. 

Lauren: Of course I want to see him. Definitely. 

Meagan: We get in there and they’re like, “We’ll do this plus you’ll get to see your baby.” You’re like, “Well, I haven’t seen my baby since 20 weeks, so okay. I’ll do that.” 

Lauren: And you don’t know any different so you’re just like, “Yep, that seems fine.” I think we even did a gender reveal and I think my husband’s cousin mentioned something about her friend doing Hypnobirthing. I remember I just wasn’t in the right place to hear that at the time. I’m like, I wish I would have listened but it just wasn’t meant for me at that time. 

I took maternity leave. I had 4 weeks off because I thought, Whoa, from 36 weeks the baby could really come any time. Looking back, I know 40 weeks is not even your due date. It could be any time, anywhere. 

Meagan: Estimated. Estimated. 

Lauren: A guess date I’ve heard a lot of people refer to it. And first-time moms tend to go over the 40 weeks so it’s not uncommon. I remember it being such a mind game toward the end when I was getting closer to the due date. I think my OB offered me a stretch and sweep around 38-39 weeks and I was like, “Yep. I’m ready. I’m over it. Anything that we can do to get the baby.” I didn’t really think of it as being an intervention. I didn’t really know what the word intervention was at that time. I do remember her saying to me afterward something like, “Oh, I hope we’re still friends after this,” after she did it. 

Meagan: Oh. 

Lauren: I was like, “Oh