In this episode, Bill and Marty navigate the complexities of balancing personal desires with obligatory tasks. Through personal anecdotes and coaching insights, they explore strategies for identifying necessary actions, integrating them with life goals, and overcoming reluctance in business practices like seeking client referrals. They discuss practical approaches to managing unpleasant chores, such as invoicing, while maintaining a fulfilling career. The conversation also touches on philosophies like Buddhism and Taoism, offering tips on mentally enduring difficult tasks. Empowerment and taking responsibility are highlighted as keys to transforming relationships and achieving personal and professional success.

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome to the Leadership Coaching Podcast
00:21 Exploring Life's Eternal Dilemma
01:10 What's on Our Plate Today
01:55 Balancing Obligations and Desires
02:28 Personal Stories and Reflections
07:27 The Importance of Practice and Persistence
10:04 Navigating Professional Challenges
13:53 The Reluctance to Ask for Referrals
17:46 Understanding the 'Have To' Mentality
22:44 Overcoming Reluctance and Changing Perspectives
25:38 Facing the Fear of Rejection
26:24 Workarounds and Their Pitfalls
28:03 Addressing Inner Conflicts
29:38 The Reality of Choices
30:41 Empowerment Through Choice
32:40 Life's Struggles and Joys
40:23 Extreme Ownership in Relationships
42:46 Respectful Conversations
45:38 Conclusion and Future Episodes

Links and Resources:

• Internal Family Systems - https://ifs-institute.com/

• Bill Tierney Coaching - https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/

• Listening is the Key, Dr. Kettelhut’s website - https://www.listeningisthekey.com/

• Marty’s new book, Leadership as Relation - https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO

• Marty’s earlier book, Listen… Till you Disappear - https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd

• Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - www.partsworkpractice.com