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Episode 49: How ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ Is Making You Resent Her

Episode 49: How ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ Is Making You Resent Her

Update: 2025-09-05
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You think the problem is her.


But the real issue is you haven’t been honest with yourself for years.


You’ve stuffed your own needs. You’ve gone silent to avoid conflict. You’ve chased peace instead of growth.


And now you resent the very woman you swore you’d protect—because deep down, you’ve abandoned yourself.


This episode breaks down:


✅ Why “choosing your battles” isn’t noble, it’s emotional avoidance


✅ How people-pleasing creates tension instead of harmony


✅ What your irritation with her is actually showing you about you


You don’t hate your wife.


You hate that you’ve been ignoring what you really feel, want, and need—until resentment replaced connection.


How to work with me ⬇️:


Book a free discovery call with me here:

calendly.com/jasonschnitzercoaching/free-discovery-call-with-jason


Follow me on Instagram: @jasonschnitzercoaching

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Episode 49: How ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ Is Making You Resent Her

Episode 49: How ‘Happy Wife, Happy Life’ Is Making You Resent Her

The Self Control Show with Jason Schnitzer