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Episode 51: Why Being the "Nice Guy" Isn't Working In Your Marriage

Episode 51: Why Being the "Nice Guy" Isn't Working In Your Marriage

Update: 2025-09-29
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You avoid conflict.

You say “yes” when you mean “no.”

You think keeping the peace will keep her happy.

But the truth is, your silence and people-pleasing are building resentment—not connection.


In this episode, we break down why the “nice guy” approach leaves your wife feeling unseen, why it slowly kills attraction, and how honesty—not passivity—is the foundation of emotional safety.


You don’t need to be mean. But you do need to be real.


🎯 Ready to stop people-pleasing and start leading with presence?


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Episode 51: Why Being the "Nice Guy" Isn't Working In Your Marriage

Episode 51: Why Being the "Nice Guy" Isn't Working In Your Marriage

The Self Control Show with Jason Schnitzer