Today we chat about a really juicy topic! If you have been in relationships like me and Gloria, you would probably also both LOVE and HATE the beginning phase of a romantic relationship... when you are more than friends, but not yet lovers..

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久经沙场
jiǔ jīng shā chǎng
battle-hardened
空窗期
kōng chuāng qī
period of being single
患得患失
huàn dé huàn shī
overanxious about gains/losses
飞蛾扑火
fēi é pū huǒ
moths flying into fire (self-destructive love)
放手一搏
fàng shǒu yī bó
take a chance, risk it all
青春疼痛文学
qīng chūn téng tòng wén xué
“youth pain” literature
暧昧
ài mèi
ambiguous/flirtatious
心动
xīn dòng
heart flutter, infatuation
恋人未满
liàn rén wèi mǎn
more than friends, not yet lovers
感情顾问
gǎn qíng gù wèn
relationship advisor
恋爱导师
liàn ài dǎo shī
love coach
犯花痴
fàn huā chī
be infatuated, starry-eyed
玩弄感情
wán nòng gǎn qíng
toy with feelings
忽冷忽热
hū lěng hū rè
hot and cold (inconsistent)
忽远忽近
hū yuǎn hū jìn
sometimes close, sometimes distant
感情操纵
gǎn qíng cāo zòng
emotional manipulation
依恋对象
yī liàn duì xiàng
attachment figure
深度交流
shēn dù jiāo liú
deep talk
浪漫话语
làng màn huà yǔ
romantic words
情感流动
qíng gǎn liú dòng
emotional flow
羁绊
jī bàn
emotional bond/tie
承诺
chéng nuò
commitment, promise
牵手
qiān shǒu
hold hands
捅破窗户纸
tǒng pò chuāng hù zhǐ
expose hidden feelings
受尽委屈
shòu jìn wěi qū
suffer all the grievances
小秘诀
xiǎo mì jué
little secret/tip
把话说清楚
bǎ huà shuō qīng chǔ
make things clear
标准模板
biāo zhǔn mó bǎn
standard template
关键成功因素
guān jiàn chéng gōng yīn sù
key success factors
影射
yǐng shè
insinuation, hint
意图
yì tú
intention
调情
tiáo qíng
flirt
情绪波动
qíng xù bō dòng
mood swings
真情实感
zhēn qíng shí gǎn
genuine feelings
深思熟虑
shēn sī shú lǜ
careful consideration
把命运掌握在自己手中
bǎ mìng yùn zhǎng wò zài zì jǐ shǒu zhōng
take destiny into your own hands
爱过就好
ài guò jiù hǎo
it’s enough to have loved
遗憾
yí hàn
regret
惋惜
wǎn xī
pity, lament
冒险精神
mào xiǎn jīng shén
adventurous spirit