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The mic comes back on and we don’t ease in—we tell the truth. A cosy Christmas village spins in the background while we unpack a year that bent our capacity, stalled our schedule, and still pushed us toward braver choices. We decide to keep the show alive with a slower cadence, not out of defeat, but because sustainability is a skill worth practising.

The heart of the conversation is a major health update: approval into a bariatric surgery program with a likely date within the next year. We dig into the fear that rides shotgun—fear of death, fear of change, fear of lifelong rules—and the hope that keeps us moving. This isn’t an easy way out; it’s a structured, demanding path with supplements, labs, hydration, and habits that compound over time. Alongside that comes the messy reality of weight stigma and access: Saxenda costs spike, insurance falls short, a switch to Wegovy helps, and Vyvanse quiets binge urges and ADHD‑fuelled food noise in surprising ways.

We also name what many avoid. Borderline personality disorder shows up as people pleasing, conflict avoidance, and a fragile sense of self. Therapy helps and sometimes hurts; progress isn’t linear. We talk about stepping back from social media for mental health, planning to document the bariatric journey on YouTube with safer comment boundaries, and finding small joys—sourdough starters, cranberry‑brie pull‑apart bread, and a child’s sticky‑sweet cameo—that make the hard days softer. There’s a candid story about foot pain, a podiatrist’s nod that stings, and a physio’s reframing that reminds us weight can be a factor without being the whole story.

If you’ve felt unseen by healthcare, wrestled with food noise, or needed permission to slow down without giving up, this one’s for you. Listen, share with a friend who needs a compassionate nudge, and leave a rating or review so more people can find these conversations. Subscribe to catch the bariatric prep series and our year‑end wrap as we rebuild a kinder rhythm together.

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