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Feeling Trapped: What it's Like for PDA Kids - and Parents

Feeling Trapped: What it's Like for PDA Kids - and Parents

Update: 2025-06-02
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In this episode, Amy Kotha explores the powerful theme of feeling trapped - a core experience for many PDA autistic kids and a familiar reality for their parents, too. She breaks down what “trapped” looks like at different ages and shares five ways to help everyone in the family feel more free.


For PDAers, trapped doesn’t just mean physically stuck - it’s about a lack of autonomy, emotional overwhelm, and a nervous system in constant survival mode. Amy walks through how this shows up in kids, teens, and parents alike, and offers strategies to break the cycle: scaffolding with care, shifting expectations, balancing power, and watching for learned helplessness.

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Resources/Sources Mentioned:

Amanda Diekman, Low Demand Parenting  https://www.amandadiekman.com/



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Feeling Trapped: What it's Like for PDA Kids - and Parents

Feeling Trapped: What it's Like for PDA Kids - and Parents

Amy Kotha