Erin Payne is a 1/3 Emotional Manifesting Generator with the
Right Angle Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix. Her story is one of courage, transformation, and reclaiming her authenticity. After leaving the Mormon Church, Erin embarked on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and alignment that reshaped her life.

In this episode, Erin shares how she stepped away from a
life of conformity, rebuilt her relationships, and found freedom in her personal expression. She recounts her introduction to Human Design and the profound impact it had on her family, marriage, and sense of self.

We dive into:

• Leaving the Mormon Church and rediscovering her voice

• Her first Human Design reading and how it changed her
perspective

• Transforming her marriage by embracing her and her
husband’s unique designs

• How we worked together to align her personal style with
her true essence, deconditioning her outward expression and allowing her to shine

• The ripple effect of her transformation on her husband and
their six children

This conversation is a powerful testament to the life-changing possibilities of embracing your truth and letting your light shine.

Chapter Titles

00:00:30 Meet Erin Payne

00:02:45 Erin Shares Her Story of Leaving the Mormon Church

00:14:57 Human Design Enters Erin’s Life

0:25:20 Integrating Human Design

00:29:50 Erin’s New Marriage Paradigm

00:35:19 How Erin’s Experiment Changed Her Relationship With Her Projector Husband

00:36:42 Sam and Erin Started Tapping Through Difficulties
and Reentered Their Relationship Correctly by Type

00:47:06 Outer Visions, Aesthetics, and Deconditioning Your
Outward Expression

00:49:35 Erin Talks About Shedding Her Mormon Garments and Embracing Her Sense of Style

00:55:01 Feeling Safe to Be Moody

01:00:09 How These Changes Impact Erin’s Kids

01:02:31 Thank You for Sharing Your Story

During our work together, I guided Erin in reconnecting with
her personal style and deconditioning her outward expression. This transformation became an outward reflection of the deep inner work she had been doing, allowing her to align her appearance and presence with her true self.

If Erin’s story inspires you, it’s time for the world to see you shine your light. I’m launching an 8-week group program in January (currently in beta) to help align your outward expression with the inner work you’ve been doing. Email me at itsme@kathybochonko.com to get on the waitlist and be among the first to know when enrollment opens. 

Contact Erin Payne

Website: theerinmichelle.com

Contact Me

Website: kathybochonko.com

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