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About Daniella Mestyanek Young
Daniella Mestyanek Young is a cult survivor, U.S. Army veteran, organizational psychologist, and the author of Uncultured — a critically acclaimed memoir — and The Culting of America (coming January 20, 2026).
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Born into the infamous Children of God cult — a group notorious for weaponizing religion, isolation, and sexuality — Daniella escaped at 15, only to join another high-control institution: the U.S. Army. There, she became one of the first women on an integrated ground combat team and later served as an intelligence officer studying terrorist organizations.

Today, Daniella connects the dots between cults, terrorist groups, the military, and corporate culture — revealing the uncomfortable ways these institutions use control, conformity, and charisma to shape behavior. Whether speaking on stage or knitting on TikTok while explaining coercive dynamics, she's on a mission to help people spot control early, reclaim autonomy, and lead with awareness.

🔗 Website – https://knittingcultlady.com
💼 LinkedIn – https://linkedin.com/in/daniella-young
📷 Instagram – @daniellamyoung_
🎥 TikTok – @knitting.cult.lady
📘 Facebook – Daniella Claire
🎭 Patreon – Group Behavior Gal

Episode Summary
From escaping a cult to breaking barriers in the U.S. Army, Daniella's story is one of resilience, courage, and reclaiming power.
This episode explores how coercive systems take root — and how individuals can unlearn control, rebuild trust, and define success on their own terms.

We talk about:
• Her path from isolation to belonging
• Lessons from Army leadership and combat
• How cult psychology shows up in politics and workplaces
• Why belonging can become coercion
• Knitting as mindfulness and creative advocacy
• Navigating public criticism and vulnerability
• Building authentic online communities
• Valuing time, labor, and personal boundaries

Key Topics We Cover
• Culture shock and finding belonging
• Leadership and storytelling as recovery tools
• Social media and TikTok growth
• Military reflections and parallel structures
• Parenting and identity after trauma
• Writing, publishing, and public storytelling
• Creative outlets: knitting and introspection
• Challenges for underrepresented voices
• Handling criticism with empathy and clarity
• Defining success outside traditional systems

Daniella's Advice
• Spot coercion early: "If a group is shiny, bouncy, and perfect — that's control, not community."
• Be cautious with compliments: "When they call you 'mature,' it's often targeting, not praise."
• Value your time and labor: "Never give all of yourself to any person, place, or idea."

📖 Listen to "Uncultured" on Spotify
Pre-order The Culting of America → https://knittingcultlady.com/products/the-culting-of-america

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