Exams, ATARs, scaling, university preferences—no wonder Year 12 feels overwhelming. But what if success doesn’t come down to one number? In this episode, Dr Justin Coulson is joined by careers counsellor Amy Dyer to unpack the myths around scaling, ATAR pressure, gap years, trades, and vocational pathways. If your teen feels lost—or if you’re a parent caught in the stress—this conversation will help you breathe easier and see the bigger picture.

KEY POINTS:

• Scaling and ATARs: what really matters (and what doesn’t).
• Achievement, capability, enjoyment - what is success?
• Burnout in young people after school
• Why a gap year can be the best choice for mental health and clarity.
• The hidden value of vocational studies and trade careers.
• How to help kids define success beyond exam scores.
• Why parents should focus on fit, not prestige, when guiding school and career choices.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
“You’re not supposed to know. You just try. Just be productive. Just do something.” — Dr Justin Coulson

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• Connect with Amy Dyer
• More parenting support: happyfamilies.com.au
• Check out our "Failed at School, Successful at Life" podcast series [episodes #875-879] 

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

1. Start conversations about learning styles and interests - not just grades.
2. Normalise multiple pathways: university, TAFE, trades, or gap years.
3. Reduce pressure by reminding your teen that life doesn’t hinge on a single number.
4. Create safe spaces at home for career and study discussions.

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